Muhterem M\u00fcsl\u00fcmanlar!<\/b><\/p>\n
Allah Resul\u00fc (sav) buyurdu: “Zevcesi (e\u015fi) olmayan adam yoksuldur, yoksul.”\u009d<\/i><\/b> Sordular: “\u00c7ok mal\u0131 olsa da m\u0131?”\u009d<\/i><\/b> “\u00c7ok mal\u0131 olsa da.”\u009d<\/i><\/b> diye cevap verdi Peygamber Efendimiz (sav). Yine Rasulullah (sav) buyurdu ki: “Kocas\u0131 olmayan kad\u0131n yoksuldur, yoksul!”\u009d<\/i><\/b> “\u00c7ok mal\u0131 olsa da m\u0131?”\u009d<\/i><\/b> diye sordu sahabe-i kiram. Peygamberimiz (sav): “\u00c7ok mal\u0131 olsa da.”\u009d<\/i><\/b> (Rudani, Cem’ul-fevaid, 2\/231) diyerek cevap verdi yine. Evet, Allah Resul\u00fc’n\u00fcn bu manidar s\u00f6zlerinden anl\u0131yoruz ki, hay\u0131rl\u0131 bir e\u015f d\u00fcnyan\u0131n zenginliklerine denktir. \u0130nsan\u0131n, huzurlu bir yuva kurabilece\u011fi bir e\u015fi yoksa, d\u00fcnyan\u0131n zenginlikleri ona ne huzur ne de fayda verir, mutlaka hayat\u0131nda bir eksikli\u011fin varl\u0131\u011f\u0131 her zaman hissedilir. <\/p>\n
De\u011ferli Karde\u015flerim!<\/b><\/p>\n
Dinimizde kar\u0131-koca olman\u0131n, yani bir aile olu\u015fturman\u0131n yolunun ise, me\u015fru nikahla m\u00fcmk\u00fcn olabilece\u011fi, Peygamber Efendimiz (sav) taraf\u0131ndan \u015fu \u015fekilde haber verilmi\u015ftir: “Birbirini sevenler i\u00e7in nikah kadar g\u00fczel bir \u015fey g\u00f6r\u00fclmemi\u015ftir!”\u009d <\/i><\/b>(\u0130bn Mace, Nikah, 1) Yeni bir yuva kurulmas\u0131n\u0131n a\u015famalar\u0131ndan bir tanesi de elbette nikah\u0131n ilan edildi\u011fi d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn merasimidir. Zira Resulullah (sav) Efendimiz, “Nikah\u0131, yani evlili\u011fi ilan ediniz, duyurunuz! Evlenme i\u015flerini mescidlerde yap\u0131n\u0131z! \u00dczerine de defler \u00e7al\u0131n\u0131z! \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc, helal ile haram\u0131 ay\u0131ran \u015fey, nikah\u0131 duyurmakt\u0131r.”\u009d <\/i><\/b>(Tirmizi, Nikah, 6) buyurmu\u015ftur. D\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn merasimlerinin mescidde yap\u0131lmas\u0131 ve bu s\u0131rada da def \u00e7al\u0131nmas\u0131ndan maksad nikah\u0131n umuma ilan edilmesidir. B\u00f6ylece evlenen kad\u0131n ve erke\u011fin bundan b\u00f6yle, b\u00fct\u00fcn hak ve kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131kl\u0131 sorumluluklar\u0131 kapsayacak \u015fekilde, bir \u00e7ift oldu\u011fu duyurulmu\u015f, evlenen \u00e7iftlerin yeni hayatlar\u0131na ne\u015fe i\u00e7inde ba\u015flamalar\u0131, e\u015f-dost ve akrabalar\u0131n\u0131n, hatta t\u00fcm din karde\u015flerinin bu sevin\u00e7li g\u00fcnlerinde yanlar\u0131nda bulunmalar\u0131 sa\u011flanm\u0131\u015f olur. <\/p>\n
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De\u011ferli Karde\u015flerim!<\/b> <\/p>\n
D\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn adetlerine gelince; de\u011fi\u015fik co\u011frafyalarda ya\u015fayan M\u00fcsl\u00fcmanlar\u0131n d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn adetleri aras\u0131nda farkl\u0131l\u0131klar g\u00f6r\u00fclmektedir. Bu bir zenginliktir. Bununla birlikte d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcnlerimizde dikkat edilecek ve uyulmas\u0131 laz\u0131m gelen baz\u0131 hassasiyetlerimiz de olmal\u0131d\u0131r. Def \u00e7al\u0131nmas\u0131 veya ilahilerin okunmas\u0131, yani d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcnlerde mus\u00eekinin yer almas\u0131, Peygamber Efendimiz (sav)’in tasvip ve te\u015fvikinin bulundu\u011fu konulardand\u0131r. Ancak bunlar\u0131n da makul \u00f6l\u00e7\u00fclerde olmas\u0131na dikkat edilmeli ve a\u015f\u0131r\u0131 gidilerek i\u015fin israf ve a\u015f\u0131r\u0131 e\u011flence boyutuna ula\u015fmas\u0131na meydan verilmemelidir.<\/p>\n
Ayn\u0131 \u015fekilde d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fcn kendisinde ve bilhassa d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn yeme\u011finde \u00f6l\u00e7\u00fcl\u00fc davran\u0131lmal\u0131d\u0131r. Bu \u00f6l\u00e7\u00fcn\u00fcn bir \u00f6rne\u011fini Peygamber Efendimiz (sav)’in \u015fu m\u00fcbarek s\u00f6zlerinde bulmaktay\u0131z: “D\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn yeme\u011fi birinci g\u00fcn hakt\u0131r, ikinci g\u00fcn s\u00fcnnettir, \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcnc\u00fc g\u00fcn ise g\u00f6steri\u015ftir.”\u009d<\/i><\/b> (Ebu Davud, II, 307) Yine, yeme\u011fe dost ve akraban\u0131n yan\u0131s\u0131ra – herhangi bir kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131k beklenmeksizin – maddi durumu iyi olmayanlar da davet edilmelidir. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc Peygamberimiz (sav) “En k\u00f6t\u00fc yemek, zenginlerin \u00e7a\u011f\u0131r\u0131l\u0131p, fakirlerin \u00e7a\u011f\u0131r\u0131lmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn yeme\u011fidir. Kim davete gelmezse, Allah ve Resul\u00fcne \u00e2si olur.”\u009d <\/i><\/b>(Buhari, Ni\u00c2\u00adkah, 72) buyurmu\u015ftur. <\/p>\n
Muhterem Karde\u015flerim,<\/b><\/p>\n
H\u00fclasa edecek olursak; d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn adetlerimizin de\u011fi\u015fiklik arzetmesi k\u00fclt\u00fcrel zenginli\u011fin ve \u0130slam’\u0131n ku\u015fat\u0131c\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131n bir tezah\u00fcr\u00fcd\u00fcr. Ancak, her i\u015fimizde oldu\u011fu gibi, yine dinimizin genel prensiplerine uyarak, a\u015f\u0131r\u0131l\u0131k ve g\u00f6steri\u015ften uzak durmal\u0131y\u0131z. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn as\u0131l de\u011fil, as\u0131l olan mutlu bir evlili\u011fin temelinin at\u0131lmas\u0131d\u0131r. <\/p>\n
IGMG \u0130r\u015fad Ba\u015fkanl\u0131\u011f\u0131<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
“Nikah\u0131, yani evlili\u011fi ilan ediniz, duyurunuz! Evlenme i\u015flerini mescidlerde yap\u0131n\u0131z! \u00dczerine de defler \u00e7al\u0131n\u0131z! \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc, helal ile haram\u0131 ay\u0131ran \u015fey, nikah\u0131 duyurmakt\u0131r.”\u009d (Tirmizi, Nikah, 6)<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"ngg_post_thumbnail":0},"categories":[23242,2],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/12024"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=12024"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/12024\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=12024"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=12024"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=12024"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}