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Muhterem Karde\u015flerim!<\/b><\/p>\n
\u0130nsan\u0131 \u00f6nce bir tek nefisten yaratan; ondan da e\u015fini yaratan ve ikisinden bir\u00e7ok erkekler ve kad\u0131nlar \u00fcretip yuvalar kurulmas\u0131na imk\u00e2n tan\u0131yan Rabbimiz, insan\u0131n aile kurumu i\u00e7inde olmas\u0131n\u0131 murat etmi\u015f ve nik\u00e2h konusunda biz kullar\u0131n\u0131 te\u015fvik ederek \u015f\u00f6yle buyurmu\u015ftur: “Aran\u0131zdaki bek\u00e2rlar\u0131, k\u00f6lelerinizden ve cariyelerinizden elveri\u015fli olanlar\u0131 evlendirin. E\u011fer bunlar fakir iseler, Allah kendi l\u00fctfu ile onlar\u0131 zenginle\u015ftirir. Allah, (l\u00fctfu) geni\u015f olan ve (her \u015feyi) bilendir.<\/i><\/b>“\u009d [1]<\/b><\/p>\n
Aziz Cemaat!<\/b><\/p>\n
Allah Te\u00e2l\u00e2, insanlar\u0131n evlenerek bir aile olu\u015fturmalar\u0131n\u0131 kendi varl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131n alametlerinden sayar: “Kayna\u015fman\u0131z i\u00e7in size kendi (cinsi)nizden e\u015fler yarat\u0131p aran\u0131zda sevgi ve merhamet peyda etmesi de O’nun (varl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131n) delillerindendir.”\u009d<\/i><\/b> [2]<\/b><\/p>\n
Aziz Karde\u015flerim!<\/b><\/p>\n
Dinimizde evlilik, sevgi, kayna\u015fma, iffet, namus ve neslin muhafazas\u0131 i\u00e7in me\u015fru k\u0131l\u0131nm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. Bunlar muhafaza edildi\u011fi s\u00fcrece ev huzur ve s\u00fckunun merkezi olur. Bir bak\u0131ma d\u00fcnya cenneti kurulmu\u015f olur. Zira Allah’\u0131n resul\u00fc (s.a.v.) Efendimiz “Saliha e\u015f, uygun mesken ve uysal binit saadet; k\u00f6t\u00fc huylu e\u015f, uygun olmayan ev ve huysuz binit ise mutsuzluktur.”\u009d <\/i><\/b>[3]<\/b> buyurmu\u015flard\u0131r. <\/p>\n
\u00c3\u201ayet-i ker\u00eemedeki “sevgi”\u009d<\/b> ile kad\u0131n ve erkek aras\u0131ndaki cazibenin itici g\u00fcc\u00fc olan ve onlar\u0131 birbirlerine ba\u011flayan sevgi kastedilmektedir. “Merhamet”\u009d<\/b> ise, evlilik hayat\u0131nda yava\u015f yava\u015f geli\u015fen, e\u015flerin birbirlerine kar\u015f\u0131 nazik, ho\u015fg\u00f6r\u00fcl\u00fc ve d\u00fc\u015fk\u00fcn olmalar\u0131n\u0131 sa\u011flayan duygusal ili\u015fkidir. Bu iki \u00f6zelli\u011fin tek a\u00e7\u0131klamas\u0131, Hikmet Sahibi Y\u00fcce Yarat\u0131c\u0131 olan Allah’\u0131n belirli bir gaye i\u00e7in bu iki \u00f6zelli\u011fi insan\u0131n g\u00f6nl\u00fcne yerle\u015ftirmi\u015f olmas\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n
De\u011ferli Karde\u015flerim!<\/b><\/p>\n
Evlilik hayat\u0131 bazen ideal bir \u015fekilde devam etmeyebilir. Bundan dolay\u0131d\u0131r ki Cen\u00e2b-\u0131 Hak, “Onlarla (e\u015flerinizle) iyi ge\u00e7inin.”\u009d <\/i><\/b>buyurarak e\u015flerin birbirleri ile iyi ge\u00e7inmelerini emreder. Ancak e\u015fler aras\u0131nda sevgi sona ermi\u015fse, merhamet ve \u015fefkat t\u00fckenmi\u015fse, daha fazla fitne ve fesat araya girmesin denilecekse, o zaman ayr\u0131lma yolu da s\u00f6z konusudur. Fakat bo\u015fanma Allah’\u0131n ho\u015funa giden bir durum de\u011fildir. Nitekim Peygamber Efendimiz (a.s.), “Allah’\u0131n, helal k\u0131ld\u0131klar\u0131 aras\u0131nda en sevmedi\u011fi \u015fey talakt\u0131r.”\u009d <\/i><\/b>[4]<\/b> buyurmu\u015f ve i\u015fin vehametini bize anlatm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc bo\u015fanma toplumda birlik ba\u011flar\u0131n\u0131 kopar\u0131r; \u00fcmmetin \u00e7o\u011falma sebebi olan nesli azalt\u0131r; cemiyetin huzurunu bozar, mevcut olan \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n talim ve terbiyesi zorla\u015f\u0131r.<\/p>\n
De\u011ferli Karde\u015flerim!<\/b><\/p>\n
\u0130\u015fte bundan dolay\u0131d\u0131r ki, bir aile binas\u0131n\u0131n y\u0131k\u0131lmamas\u0131 i\u00e7in b\u00fct\u00fcn tedbirler al\u0131nmal\u0131d\u0131r. Sevgi ve merhameti yeniden canland\u0131racak \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmalar yap\u0131lmal\u0131d\u0131r. Bu anlamda \u00f6nce ailenin di\u011fer fertleri; b\u00fcy\u00fckleri devreye girmeli; daha sonra e\u015f-dost ve ahbaplar i\u015fe el atmal\u0131, yap\u0131lacak g\u00fczel tavsiye ve \u00f6\u011f\u00fctlerle aile binas\u0131 kurtar\u0131lmal\u0131d\u0131r. “E\u011fer kar\u0131-kocan\u0131n aralar\u0131n\u0131n a\u00e7\u0131lmas\u0131ndan korkarsan\u0131z, erke\u011fin ailesinden bir hakem ve kad\u0131n\u0131n ailesinden bir hakem g\u00f6nderin. Bunlar bar\u0131\u015ft\u0131rmak isterlerse Allah aralar\u0131n\u0131 bulur; \u015f\u00fcphesiz Allah her \u015feyi bilen, her \u015feyden haberdar oland\u0131r”\u009d <\/b><\/i><\/b>[5]<\/b> ayeti hakemlik konusunu g\u00fcndeme getirirken; Peygamber Efendimiz (a.s.), “\u00dc\u00e7 \u015feyin d\u0131\u015f\u0131nda yalan s\u00f6ylemek do\u011fru olmaz: E\u015fini raz\u0131 etmek isteyen erke\u011fin; insanlar\u0131n aras\u0131n\u0131 bulmak i\u00e7in \u00e7al\u0131\u015fan\u0131n ve sava\u015f h\u00e2linde.<\/i>“\u009d [6]<\/b> <\/b>buyurarak, b\u00f6yle bir \u0131slah \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmas\u0131nda haram olmas\u0131na ra\u011fmen yalan s\u00f6ylenmesine dahi cevaz vermi\u015ftir. Dolay\u0131s\u0131 ile bir taraftan kar\u0131-koca, di\u011fer taraftan etraftaki insanlar devreye girmeli ve y\u0131k\u0131lmaya y\u00fcz tutmu\u015f yuvay\u0131 yeniden dikmeli ve M\u00fcsl\u00fcmanlara yard\u0131mc\u0131 olmal\u0131d\u0131r. <\/p>\n
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[1]<\/b> N\u00fbr suresi, 24:32<\/p>\n
[2]<\/b> R\u00fbm suresi, 30:21<\/p>\n
[3]<\/b> Taber\u00e2n\u00ee, Mu’cemu’l Keb\u00eer, 1\/144, H. No: 333<\/p>\n
[4]<\/b> Ebu Davud, S\u00fcnen, Talak: 3. H. No: 2177. \u0130bn Mace, Talak: 3. H. No: 2018<\/span><\/p>\n [5]<\/b> N\u00ees\u00e2 suresi, 4:35<\/p>\n [6]<\/b> \u015euabu’l \u0130m\u00e2n, 13\/435, H. No: 10587<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" “Allah’\u0131n, helal k\u0131ld\u0131klar\u0131 aras\u0131nda en sevmedi\u011fi \u015fey talakt\u0131r.”\u009d [Ebu Davud, S\u00fcnen, Talak: 3. H. No: 2177. \u0130bn Mace, Talak: 3. H. No: 2018]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"ngg_post_thumbnail":0},"categories":[2],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/12549"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=12549"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/12549\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=12549"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=12549"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=12549"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}