{"id":32226,"date":"2016-02-16T17:44:16","date_gmt":"2016-02-16T16:44:16","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/tr\/?p=32226"},"modified":"2016-02-16T17:44:16","modified_gmt":"2016-02-16T16:44:16","slug":"nikah-ve-evliligin-oenemi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/tr\/nikah-ve-evliligin-oenemi\/","title":{"rendered":"Nik\u00e2h ve evlili\u011fin \u00f6nemi"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong>Muhterem M\u00fcsl\u00fcmanlar!<br \/>\nAile toplumun \u00e7ekirde\u011fidir. Aileler birle\u015ferek toplumlar\u0131 meydana getirir. Nesiller yeti\u015firken inan\u00e7, ibadet, ahlak ve terbiye temellerini ilk olarak aileden al\u0131r. Sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 nesiller sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 ailelerde yeti\u015fir.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u0130slam\u2019da aile kurumu son derece \u00f6nemli bir yere sahiptir. Aile, kullar\u0131n yery\u00fcz\u00fcnde bar\u0131nd\u0131klar\u0131 en g\u00fcvenli mek\u00e2n ve yery\u00fcz\u00fcndeki cennetleridir. \u201cAllah, evlerinizi sizin i\u00e7in bir huzur ve s\u00fck\u00fbn yeri yapt\u0131.\u201d[1] ayeti ailenin bu \u00f6zelli\u011fine dikkatlerimizi \u00e7ekmektedir. Di\u011fer taraftan Cen\u00e2b-\u0131 Hak, evlilik kurumunu kendisinin varl\u0131\u011f\u0131na alamet olan ayetlerden saym\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. R\u00fbm suresinde \u015f\u00f6yle buyurulmaktad\u0131r: \u201cYine O\u2019nun ayetlerindendir ki, sizin i\u00e7in nefislerinizden kendilerine \u0131s\u0131n\u0131rs\u0131n\u0131z diye e\u015fler yaratm\u0131\u015f, aran\u0131za bir sevgi ve merhamet koymu\u015ftur. \u015e\u00fcphesiz ki bunda d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnecek bir kavim i\u00e7in nice ibretler vard\u0131r.\u201d[2] Ayetten de anla\u015f\u0131laca\u011f\u0131 \u00fczere insan huzuru aile i\u00e7inde aramak durumundad\u0131r ve aileyi ayakta tutan \u015feyler sevgi ve merhamettir. Yani aile huzurun kayna\u011f\u0131d\u0131r ve huzur, mutluluk, saadet orada aranmal\u0131d\u0131r. Bu huzur kayna\u011f\u0131n\u0131n ya\u015fat\u0131lmas\u0131 ise, sevgi ve merhamet p\u0131narlar\u0131n\u0131n devaml\u0131 akar h\u00e2lde tutulmas\u0131 ile m\u00fcmk\u00fcn olacakt\u0131r. <\/p>\n<p>De\u011ferli Karde\u015flerim!<br \/>\nEvlilik hayat\u0131, me\u015fru dairede nik\u00e2h prosed\u00fcr\u00fcn\u00fcn tamamlanmas\u0131 ile ba\u015flam\u0131\u015f olur. Ancak bu nik\u00e2h, kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131kl\u0131 olarak kar\u0131-kocan\u0131n b\u00fct\u00fcn hukukunu kar\u015f\u0131layacak ve nik\u00e2h\u0131n gaye ve hedefini ger\u00e7ekle\u015ftirecek \u015fekilde olmal\u0131d\u0131r. Nik\u00e2h\u0131n en \u00f6nemli gayelerinden birisi neslin \u00e7o\u011falmas\u0131d\u0131r. \u201cEvleniniz, \u00e7o\u011fal\u0131n\u0131z. Ben k\u0131yamet g\u00fcn\u00fcnde di\u011fer \u00fcmmetlere kar\u015f\u0131 sizin \u00e7oklu\u011funuzla \u00f6v\u00fcnece\u011fim.\u201d[3] buyuran Peygamber Efendimiz (s.a.v.) nik\u00e2h\u0131n bu y\u00f6n\u00fcn\u00fcn alt\u0131n\u0131 \u00e7izmi\u015ftir. Nik\u00e2h akdi, erke\u011fe de kad\u0131na da bir\u00e7ok hak temin etmi\u015f ve onlar\u0131 g\u00fcven alt\u0131na alm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. Cen\u00e2b-\u0131 Hak \u015f\u00f6yle buyurmu\u015ftur: \u201cErkeklerin kad\u0131nlar \u00fczerinde haklar\u0131 oldu\u011fu gibi kad\u0131nlar\u0131n da erkekler \u00fczerinde birtak\u0131m iyi davran\u0131\u015fa dayal\u0131 haklar\u0131 vard\u0131r.\u201d[4] K\u0131y\u0131lan nik\u00e2h, evlenen bu insanlar\u0131n b\u00fct\u00fcn haklar\u0131n\u0131 korumal\u0131d\u0131r. Nik\u00e2h akdi cinsel arzular\u0131n tatmini, neslin \u00e7o\u011falmas\u0131, babal\u0131k ve anal\u0131k duygusunun tad\u0131lmas\u0131, \u015fefkat ve sevgi hislerinin geli\u015fmesi, sorumluluk duygusunun olu\u015fmas\u0131, \u00e7ocuk e\u011fitimi ve \u00e7al\u0131\u015fma hayat\u0131n\u0131n d\u00fczene girmesi, akrabal\u0131k ba\u011flar\u0131n\u0131n geli\u015fmesi ve g\u00fc\u00e7lenmesi gibi bir\u00e7ok hikmeti beraberinde getirir. <\/p>\n<p>K\u0131ymetli Karde\u015flerim!<br \/>\nBu hikmetleri ta\u015f\u0131mayan, sadece \u015fehevi arzular\u0131n tatmini i\u00e7in bir erkekle bir kad\u0131n\u0131n iki \u015fahit huzurunda \u201cald\u0131m\/kabul ettim\u201d demeleri ile nik\u00e2h akdi tamamlanm\u0131\u015f olmaz. Bu olsa olsa iki insan\u0131n birbirini nik\u00e2hla aldatmas\u0131 olur ve nik\u00e2h\u0131n hukukunu korumayan bu akdi do\u011fru bulmak m\u00fcmk\u00fcn de\u011fildir. Bununla birlikte, ba\u015fka insanlara ilan edilmeden dar bir \u00e7er\u00e7evede kal\u0131narak yap\u0131lan evlilikler de \u0130slam\u2019\u0131n \u00f6ng\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fc evlilik modelinden uzakt\u0131r. Dolay\u0131s\u0131yla M\u00fcsl\u00fcmanlar olarak evlenirken nik\u00e2h\u0131n b\u00fct\u00fcn gereklerine dikkat etmeli ve nik\u00e2h hususunda \u00e7ok titiz davranmal\u0131y\u0131z. <\/p>\n<p>[1] Nahl suresi, 16:80<br \/>\n[2] R\u00fbm suresi, 30:21<br \/>\n[3] Ahmed b. Hanbel, I, 412<br \/>\n[4] Bakara suresi, 2:228<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Muhterem M\u00fcsl\u00fcmanlar!<br \/>\nAile toplumun \u00e7ekirde\u011fidir. Aileler birle\u015ferek toplumlar\u0131 meydana getirir. Nesiller yeti\u015firken inan\u00e7, ibadet, ahlak ve terbiye temellerini ilk olarak aileden al\u0131r. Sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 nesiller sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 ailelerde yeti\u015fir.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":31304,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"ngg_post_thumbnail":0},"categories":[23242],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/32226"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=32226"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/32226\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":32227,"href":"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/32226\/revisions\/32227"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/31304"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=32226"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=32226"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=32226"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}