{"id":34233,"date":"2017-03-08T12:29:02","date_gmt":"2017-03-08T11:29:02","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/?p=34233\/"},"modified":"2017-03-08T12:29:02","modified_gmt":"2017-03-08T11:29:02","slug":"hutbe-evlilik-ve-dueguen-adabi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/tr\/hutbe-evlilik-ve-dueguen-adabi\/","title":{"rendered":"Hutbe: Evlilik ve D\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn Adab\u0131"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong>Muhterem M\u00fcminler!<br \/>\nY\u00fcce Allah \u015f\u00f6yle buyuruyor: \u201cEy \u0130nsanlar! Sizi bir tek nefisten yaratan ve ondan e\u015fini yarat\u0131p ikisinden bir\u00e7ok erkekler ve kad\u0131nlar yayan Rabbiniz\u2019den korkun.\u201d[1]<\/strong>  <\/p>\n<p><b>De\u011ferli Karde\u015flerim!<\/b><br \/>\nEvlilik, insan neslinin muhafazas\u0131 i\u00e7in en \u00f6nemli m\u00fcessesedir. \u0130ffetin, namusun korunmas\u0131 i\u00e7in de m\u00fckemmel bir kalkand\u0131r. Dolay\u0131s\u0131 ile haramlar\u0131n iyice yay\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131 bu zamanda iffetli kalman\u0131n tek yolu evliliktir. Bu y\u00fczden, evlilik ayn\u0131 zamanda bir ibadettir. \u0130nsan\u0131n kendi nefsi ile m\u00fccadelesinin bir \u00f6rne\u011fi bak\u0131m\u0131ndan cihat olarak nitelendirilebilir. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc bunun neticesinde Allah\u2019\u0131n r\u0131zas\u0131na ula\u015fmak vard\u0131r.<br \/>\nPeygamber Efendimiz \u015f\u00f6yle buyurmaktad\u0131r: <b> \u201cKi\u015fi evlendi\u011fi zaman dininin yar\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 korumu\u015f olur. Geriye kalan yar\u0131s\u0131 i\u00e7in de Allah\u2019a kar\u015f\u0131 gelmekten sak\u0131ns\u0131n.\u201d[2] <\/p>\n<p>Muhterem M\u00fcsl\u00fcmanlar! <\/b><br \/>\nEvlilik konusunda son derece hassas olmam\u0131z gerekmektedir. Evlilik bir oyuncak olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 gibi, evlilikten ka\u00e7\u0131nmak da do\u011fru de\u011fildir.<br \/>\nBunun i\u00e7in, evlili\u011fin \u00f6nemini kavramak, \u00e7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131za nik\u00e2h\u0131n, aile olman\u0131n ne demek oldu\u011funu anlatmak zorunday\u0131z. Evlilikte, moda tabirle<b> \u201cAnla\u015famazsak ayr\u0131l\u0131r\u0131z.\u201d <\/b> anlay\u0131\u015f\u0131 yerine, <b> \u201cAyr\u0131lmayaca\u011f\u0131z, birbirimizi sevece\u011fiz, sayaca\u011f\u0131z, evlili\u011fimizi bir \u00f6m\u00fcr boyu s\u00fcrd\u00fcrmek i\u00e7in fed\u00e2k\u00e2rl\u0131kta bulunaca\u011f\u0131z.\u201d <\/b> anlay\u0131\u015f\u0131 yayg\u0131nla\u015ft\u0131r\u0131lmal\u0131d\u0131r. <\/p>\n<p><b>K\u0131ymetli Karde\u015flerim! <\/b><br \/>\n\u0130slam\u2019\u0131n temel ilkelerinden olan, namusun ve neslin korunmas\u0131 ilkesi, ancak Allah ad\u0131na k\u0131y\u0131lan nik\u00e2h ile sa\u011flanabilmektedir. Bunun d\u0131\u015f\u0131nda kalan yollar, ki\u015fiyi en a\u011f\u0131r haramlardan biri olan zina gibi ahlaks\u0131zl\u0131klara g\u00f6t\u00fcrmektedir. Zina ile beraber ahlaks\u0131zl\u0131klar iyice artmakta ve nesil bozulmakta, nik\u00e2ha giden yollar kolayla\u015ft\u0131r\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131nda ise ahlak korunmakta ve nesil emniyet alt\u0131na al\u0131nmaktad\u0131r. Onun i\u00e7in, evlenecek olan k\u0131z\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n ve o\u011flumuzun nik\u00e2ha giden yollar\u0131n\u0131 kolayla\u015ft\u0131rmam\u0131z gerekmektedir.<\/p>\n<p><b>De\u011ferli M\u00fcsl\u00fcmanlar! <\/b><br \/>\nEvlili\u011fin ve nik\u00e2h\u0131n ilan edilmesini geleneklerimiz gere\u011fi d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn \u015feklinde yap\u0131yoruz. D\u00fc\u011f\u00fcnlerimizde e\u011fleniyor, nik\u00e2hlar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 akrabalar\u0131m\u0131za, dostlar\u0131m\u0131za ve topluma ilan ediyoruz. Zaten nik\u00e2h\u0131n ilan\u0131 da b\u00f6yle olmal\u0131d\u0131r. Bununla birlikte, maalesef, \u0130slam\u2019\u0131n asaletine, ahlak\u0131na uymayan d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcnlere de rastl\u0131yoruz. Bu konuda bilin\u00e7li ve uyan\u0131k olal\u0131m. Hi\u00e7bir anlam\u0131 olmayan <b> \u201cBir kere evleniyorlar, ne olur ki?\u201d<\/b> gibi mazeretlerle Allah i\u00e7in kurdu\u011fumuz yuvam\u0131z\u0131n temelini daha ilk g\u00fcnden y\u0131kmayal\u0131m. <\/p>\n<p>D\u00fc\u011f\u00fcnlerimizde israfa gitmeyelim. O\u011flunu ya da k\u0131z\u0131n\u0131 evlendirecek ana babalar, <b> \u201cKim ne der?\u201d <\/b>gibi anlams\u0131z sorularla veya <b> \u201c\u015ean\u0131ma yara\u015f\u0131r bir d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn yapmal\u0131y\u0131m.\u201d <\/b>gibi uygunsuz yakla\u015f\u0131mlarla kar\u015f\u0131 taraf\u0131 gereksiz yere a\u011f\u0131r y\u00fck alt\u0131na sokacak organizasyonlara giri\u015fmemelidir. Sade ve ciddi olunmal\u0131d\u0131r. Y\u00fck olunmamal\u0131, bilakis kar\u015f\u0131 taraf\u0131n y\u00fck\u00fc hafifletilmelidir. Yak\u0131nlar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n ve dostlar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n bizleri tebrik i\u00e7in geldi\u011fi bu g\u00fcnde onlara ikramlar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 yapmal\u0131 ve dualar\u0131n\u0131 almal\u0131y\u0131z! Ancak asla a\u015f\u0131r\u0131ya ve israfa ka\u00e7mamal\u0131y\u0131z! Hele ki Allah\u2019\u0131n haram k\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131, b\u00fct\u00fcn k\u00f6t\u00fcl\u00fcklerin anas\u0131 olan i\u00e7kiyi kesinlikle d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcnlerimize sokmamal\u0131y\u0131z. <\/p>\n<p>Davetliler ve d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn sahipleri olarak bir di\u011fer dikkat etmemiz gereken husus da tesett\u00fcre riayet etmektir. Bir yandan Allah\u2019\u0131n emrini ve peygamberin s\u00fcnnetini yerine getirirken di\u011fer yandan harama d\u00fc\u015fmemeliyiz.<\/p>\n<p>[1] Nis\u00e2 suresi, 4:1<br \/>\n[2] Taber\u00e2n\u00ee, Mu\u2019cemu\u2019l Evs\u00e2t, 1\/162\/1<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/03\/20170310-Hutbe-Evlilik-ve-Dugun-Adabi.pdf\">Hutbe-Evlilik ve D\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn Adab\u0131<\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/03\/20170310-Hutba-Arabisch.pdf\">Hutbe-Arap\u00e7a<\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/03\/20170310-Hutba-Arabisch.docx\">Hutbe-Arap\u00e7a<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Muhterem M\u00fcminler!<br \/>\nY\u00fcce Allah \u015f\u00f6yle buyuruyor: \u201cEy \u0130nsanlar! Sizi bir tek nefisten yaratan ve ondan e\u015fini yarat\u0131p ikisinden bir\u00e7ok erkekler ve kad\u0131nlar yayan Rabbiniz\u2019den korkun.\u201d<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":31295,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"ngg_post_thumbnail":0},"categories":[23242],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/34233"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=34233"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/34233\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":34235,"href":"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/34233\/revisions\/34235"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/31295"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=34233"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=34233"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=34233"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}