{"id":35503,"date":"2017-12-20T12:26:03","date_gmt":"2017-12-20T11:26:03","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/?p=35503"},"modified":"2017-12-20T12:26:03","modified_gmt":"2017-12-20T11:26:03","slug":"hutbe-cocuklarimiza-karsi-davranislarimiz","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/tr\/hutbe-cocuklarimiza-karsi-davranislarimiz\/","title":{"rendered":"Hutbe: \u00c7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131za Kar\u015f\u0131 Davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131m\u0131z"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong>De\u011ferli M\u00fcsl\u00fcmanlar!<\/p>\n<p>\u00c7ocuk deyince akl\u0131n\u0131za ne gelmelidir? Afacanl\u0131k m\u0131? K\u0131r\u0131p-d\u00f6kme mi? Rahats\u0131zl\u0131k verici g\u00fcr\u00fclt\u00fcler mi? Hay\u0131r, bunlar\u0131n hi\u00e7biri de\u011fil. Akl\u0131n\u0131za safl\u0131k gelmeli, berrakl\u0131k gelmeli, do\u011fall\u0131k gelmeli, canl\u0131l\u0131kla dolu, c\u0131v\u0131l c\u0131v\u0131l bir hayat gelmelidir.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>E\u011fer bulundu\u011funuz yerlerde \u00e7ocuklar yoksa, oran\u0131n sonu gelmi\u015f demektir. Orada insan da, insanl\u0131k da bitmi\u015f demektir. Zira \u00e7ocuk \u00fcmittir. O gelece\u011fin teminat\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c7ocuklar hayat\u0131n en m\u00fcstesna s\u00fcs\u00fc, bereketi ve zenginli\u011fidir. Mutluluk ancak onlarla elde edilebilir. Hi\u00e7bir \u00e7ocuk do\u011fu\u015ftan yalan bilmez, sahtek\u00e2rl\u0131k bilmez, aldatma bilmez, kin ve d\u00fc\u015fmanl\u0131k bilmez. Bunlar ancak k\u00f6t\u00fc terbiye sonras\u0131 ortaya \u00e7\u0131kar.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Aziz Karde\u015flerim!<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Onlar\u0131 g\u00f6rmez misiniz? Kendi aralar\u0131nda b\u00fcy\u00fck kavgalar etseler bile, bar\u0131\u015fmalar\u0131 kavgalar\u0131ndan \u00e7ok daha k\u0131sa s\u00fcrer. Bundan dolay\u0131 \u00e7ocuklardan \u00f6\u011frenece\u011fimiz bir\u00e7ok \u015fey vard\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 f\u0131tratlar\u0131 bozulmayacak \u015fekilde yeti\u015ftirmemiz \u015fartt\u0131r. Yani onlar\u0131 do\u011fu\u015ftan gelen temizlikleriyle, o safl\u0131klar\u0131yla hayata haz\u0131rlamal\u0131y\u0131z. Bundan dolay\u0131 onlar\u0131 cami ve cemaatle ha\u015f\u0131r ne\u015fir etmeliyiz. B\u00fcy\u00fckler onlar\u0131n varl\u0131\u011f\u0131ndan huzur duymal\u0131, onlar da b\u00fcy\u00fcklerden terbiye ve tecr\u00fcbe almal\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Muhterem Cemaat!<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Rabbimiz, <strong>\u201cMallar\u0131n\u0131z ve \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131z ancak birer imtihand\u0131r; Allah kat\u0131nda ise b\u00fcy\u00fck bir m\u00fck\u00e2fat vard\u0131r.\u201d[1] <\/strong>buyurarak \u00e7ocuklar\u0131 bizim imtihan arac\u0131m\u0131z k\u0131lm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. Elbette ki, bu imtihan\u0131 kazanacaklara da m\u00fcjdeler vermi\u015ftir. \u00c7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131zla imtihan\u0131m\u0131zdaki sorumuzun cevab\u0131n\u0131 da sevgili Peygamberimiz (s.a.v.), <strong>\u201c\u00c7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131za, (mal\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 ve sevginizi) ikram edin, onlar\u0131 g\u00fczel terbiye edin.\u201d[2]<\/strong> buyurarak vermi\u015ftir.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Muhterem M\u00fcminler!<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Unutmamal\u0131 ki, insan rahat etti\u011fi mek\u00e2n\u0131 kendine yer edinir. Bu anlamda \u00e7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131z camilerimizde rahat etmeliler. Sak\u0131n ha onlara su\u00e7lay\u0131c\u0131 g\u00f6zle bakmay\u0131n\u0131z.<\/p>\n<p>Yine unutmamal\u0131 ki, \u00e7ocuklar sosyal geli\u015fimini do\u011fru olarak ancak bu cemaat i\u00e7erisinde tamamlayabilir. \u00c7ocuk yaramazl\u0131k yapmaz, \u00e7ocukluk yapar. Onlar\u0131n davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131 ho\u015funuza gitmedi\u011finde onlara yaramaz demeyin, sadece \u00e7ocuk deyin. Bu davran\u0131\u015f\u0131n\u0131z onlar\u0131 size daha \u00e7ok sevdirecektir.<\/p>\n<p>Cemaat ve onlar\u0131n b\u00fcy\u00fckleri olarak \u00e7ocuklara kar\u015f\u0131 g\u00f6revlerimiz aras\u0131nda \u015funlar bulunmal\u0131d\u0131r:<\/p>\n<ol>\n<li>Onlara sab\u0131r ve sevgi g\u00f6stermeliyiz.<\/li>\n<li>M\u00fcsamahak\u00e2r ve anlay\u0131\u015fl\u0131 olmal\u0131y\u0131z.<\/li>\n<li>Onlar\u0131 do\u011fruya y\u00f6nlendirmeliyiz<\/li>\n<li>Onlarla ho\u015fsohbet olmal\u0131y\u0131z.<\/li>\n<li>Namaz k\u0131larken her birimiz bir \u00e7ocu\u011fu yan\u0131m\u0131za alarak onun geli\u015fmesine refakat etmeliyiz.<\/li>\n<li>\u00c7ocuklara argo s\u00f6zlerle hitap etmemeliyiz.<\/li>\n<li>Onlar\u0131 ba\u011f\u0131ra \u00e7a\u011f\u0131ra de\u011fil, \u00f6rnek davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131m\u0131zla terbiye etmeliyiz. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc \u00e7ocuklar b\u00fcy\u00fcklerinden sadece yiyecek ve i\u00e7ecek almazlar, daha \u00e7ok onlar\u0131n davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131n\u0131 al\u0131rlar.<\/li>\n<li>Hi\u00e7bir \u00e7ocu\u011fu ba\u015fkas\u0131n\u0131n \u00e7ocu\u011fu olarak g\u00f6rmemeli, hepimizin evlatlar\u0131 olarak onlara sosyal bir sorumluluk duygusu i\u00e7inde yakla\u015fmal\u0131y\u0131z.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>\u0130\u015fte camiler bu anlamda \u00e7ok b\u00fcy\u00fck bir g\u00f6rev \u00fcstlenmektedir. Bundan dolay\u0131, camilerimizi s\u00fcrekli a\u00e7\u0131k tutmal\u0131, \u00e7ocuklarla doldurmal\u0131, onlar\u0131n ya\u015fayaca\u011f\u0131 alanlar olarak kurgulamal\u0131y\u0131z.<\/p>\n<p>Rabbim evlatlar\u0131m\u0131zla olan imtihan\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 kolay eylesin!<\/p>\n<p>[1] Teg\u00e2b\u00fcn suresi, 64:15<br \/>\n[2] \u0130bn Mace, Edeb, 15; H. No: 3671<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/20171222-Hutbe-Cocuklarimiza-Davranisimiz.pdf\">Hutbe-\u00c7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131za Kar\u015f\u0131 Davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131m\u0131z<\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/20171222-Hutba-Arabisch.pdf\">Hutbe-Arap\u00e7a<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>De\u011ferli M\u00fcsl\u00fcmanlar!<\/p>\n<p>\u00c7ocuk deyince akl\u0131n\u0131za ne gelmelidir? Afacanl\u0131k m\u0131? K\u0131r\u0131p-d\u00f6kme mi? Rahats\u0131zl\u0131k verici g\u00fcr\u00fclt\u00fcler mi? Hay\u0131r, bunlar\u0131n hi\u00e7biri de\u011fil. Akl\u0131n\u0131za safl\u0131k gelmeli, berrakl\u0131k gelmeli, do\u011fall\u0131k gelmeli, canl\u0131l\u0131kla dolu, c\u0131v\u0131l c\u0131v\u0131l bir hayat gelmelidir.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":31295,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"ngg_post_thumbnail":0},"categories":[23242],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/35503"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=35503"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/35503\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":35505,"href":"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/35503\/revisions\/35505"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/31295"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=35503"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=35503"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=35503"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}