{"id":37977,"date":"2019-10-11T10:58:43","date_gmt":"2019-10-11T08:58:43","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/?p=37977"},"modified":"2019-10-11T10:59:54","modified_gmt":"2019-10-11T08:59:54","slug":"hutbe-guezel-nasihat-etmenin-sarti-samimiyet","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/tr\/hutbe-guezel-nasihat-etmenin-sarti-samimiyet\/","title":{"rendered":"Hutbe: G\u00fczel Nasihat Etmenin \u015eart\u0131: Samimiyet"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong>Muhterem Karde\u015flerim!<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u0130nsanlar olarak nasihate, do\u011frular\u0131 ve hakikatleri hat\u0131rlamaya ihtiyac\u0131m\u0131z var. Dolay\u0131s\u0131yla g\u00f6nl\u00fc zengin, kucaklay\u0131c\u0131, s\u0131cak ve samimi \u015fekilde bize nasihat eden karde\u015flerimiz olmadan da varl\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 bir \u015fekilde devam ettirmemiz m\u00fcmk\u00fcn de\u011fil. Bu hakikati Resul-i Ekrem Efendimiz \ufdfa <strong>\u201cDin nasihattir.\u201d<a href=\"#_ftn1\" name=\"_ftnref1\">[1]<\/a> <\/strong>buyurarak ifade etmi\u015ftir.<\/p>\n<p><strong>De\u011ferli M\u00fcminler!<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Karde\u015fimize, akrabam\u0131za, yak\u0131n\u0131m\u0131za, kom\u015fumuza bildi\u011fimiz bir hususta tavsiye verip nasihatte bulunmak suretiyle yard\u0131mc\u0131 olacaksak mutlaka samimiyetle nasihat etmeliyiz. Samimiyet nasihatin en temel \u015fart\u0131d\u0131r! Nasihatteki samimiyetimiz ise ses tonumuza ba\u011fl\u0131d\u0131r. E\u011fer kar\u015f\u0131m\u0131zdakinin bir g\u00fcnah\u0131 veya hatay\u0131 terk etmesini istiyorsak, onu en olumlu \u015fekilde etkileyecek bir dili tercih etmeliyiz. Rabbimiz, M\u00fbs\u00e2 ve H\u00e2r\u00fbn (a.s.)\u2019\u0131 Firavun\u2019a g\u00f6nderdi\u011finde bile <strong>\u201cOna yumu\u015fak s\u00f6z s\u00f6yleyin. Belki \u00f6\u011f\u00fct al\u0131r, yahut korkar.\u201d<\/strong><a href=\"#_ftn2\" name=\"_ftnref2\">[2]<\/a> buyurmas\u0131 bu ba\u011flamda bizim i\u00e7in \u00e7ok manidard\u0131r. Zira Hz. M\u00fbs\u00e2 (a.s.)\u2019\u0131n makam\u0131nda olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z ve nasihat verdi\u011fimiz ki\u015fi de Firavun\u2019un seviyesinde olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131na g\u00f6re bu \u00e2yet-i ker\u00eeme \u00f6zellikle bizim i\u00e7in de ge\u00e7erlidir.<\/p>\n<p><strong>K\u0131ymetli M\u00fcsl\u00fcmanlar!<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Rabbimiz, Asr suresinde, iman edip s\u00e2lih ameller i\u015fleyenler, birbirlerine hakk\u0131 tavsiye edenler ve birbirlerine sabr\u0131 tavsiye edenler haricindekilerin ziyanda olduklar\u0131n\u0131 ifade eder. Hakk\u0131 tavsiye etmemiz, kalpten kalbe yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z bir te\u015fviktir. Sevdi\u011fimiz insanlar\u0131 bildi\u011fimiz bir yanl\u0131\u015ftan \u00e7evirmek i\u00e7in, yanl\u0131\u015f gidi\u015fattan al\u0131koymak i\u00e7in g\u00f6sterdi\u011fimiz yoldur. Bunu yaparken de mutlaka menfaatini ve yarar\u0131n\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm\u00fcz\u00fc ifadelerimizde belli etmeliyiz. Kabaca, yererek, yarg\u0131layarak ve tepeden bakarak tavsiye ya da nasihat vermeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmak, sevdi\u011fimiz insanlar\u0131n Allah\u2019tan uzakla\u015fmas\u0131na vesile olabilir. Nitekim kar\u015f\u0131m\u0131zdakini hakir g\u00f6rerek verdi\u011fimiz nasihatin temelinde kibir yatabilir. H\u00e2lbuki samimi bir tavsiyenin mayas\u0131 rahmet olmal\u0131d\u0131r. Zira Efendimiz \ufdfa de \u00e2lemlere rahmet olarak g\u00f6nderilmi\u015ftir ve bu hususta da bizim en g\u00fczel \u00f6rne\u011fimizdir.<\/p>\n<p><strong>De\u011ferli Cemaat!<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>E\u011fer samimice tavsiyede bulunuyorsak bizler de mutlaka nasihate a\u00e7\u0131k olmal\u0131y\u0131z. Zira te\u015fvik ve tavsiye daima iki tarafl\u0131d\u0131r, tek tarafl\u0131 de\u011fildir. Hz. \u00d6mer (r.a.)\u2019\u0131n ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131 bir hadise bize bu hususta m\u00fckemmel bir \u00f6rnek sunar. Hz. \u00d6mer (r.a.) bir ki\u015finin evde arkada\u015flar\u0131yla birlikte i\u00e7ki i\u00e7ti\u011fine dair haber al\u0131r. Bunun \u00fczerine Hz. \u00d6mer hemen yola \u00e7\u0131k\u0131p o ki\u015finin evine girer ve onunla beraber bir ki\u015fi daha oldu\u011funa \u015fahit olur. Evin sahibi, Hz. \u00d6mer\u2019in davran\u0131\u015f\u0131na \u015fu s\u00f6zleriyle tepki verir: <em>\u201cEy m\u00fcminlerin emiri! Buna hakk\u0131n yoktur! Allah bize casuslu\u011fu yasak k\u0131lm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r!\u201d<\/em> Hz. \u00d6mer (r.a.) \u015fa\u015f\u0131r\u0131p <em>\u201cBu adam ne diyor!?\u201d<\/em> diye sordu\u011funda yan\u0131nda bulunan sah\u00e2b\u00eeler: <em>\u201cDo\u011fru s\u00f6yl\u00fcyor m\u00fcminlerin emiri. Bu casusluktur.\u201d<\/em> derler. Hz. \u00d6mer (r.a.) ise bunun do\u011frulunu kabul edip evden \u00e7\u0131kar ve adam\u0131 b\u0131rak\u0131r.<a href=\"#_ftn3\" name=\"_ftnref3\">[3]<\/a><\/p>\n<p><strong>Muhterem M\u00fcsl\u00fcmanlar!<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Hz. \u00d6mer (r.a.) gibi \u015fecaat sahibi, vakarl\u0131 ve onurlu bir sah\u00e2b\u00eenin tavsiyeyi tevazu ile kabul etmesi, \u015f\u00fcphesiz ki onun hakikate ve iyiye olan sadakatinden kaynaklan\u0131yor. O h\u00e2lde biz de nasihat ederken de tavsiye al\u0131rken de Allah\u2019\u0131n hakk\u0131n\u0131 en \u00fcst s\u0131rada tutmal\u0131y\u0131z. Amac\u0131m\u0131z ve hedefimiz, Allah\u2019\u0131n hakk\u0131n\u0131 korumak ad\u0131na Onun yaratt\u0131\u011f\u0131 kullar\u0131n\u0131n istikamette kalmas\u0131 olmal\u0131d\u0131r. Usul\u00fcm\u00fcz de daima samimi ve sevgi dolu olmal\u0131d\u0131r, zira nasihatin en temel \u015fart\u0131 budur. Bu \u015farta sad\u0131k kalmak i\u00e7in de sabr\u0131 ku\u015fanmak, tahamm\u00fcl etmek, vazge\u00e7memek \u00f6nemli az\u0131klar\u0131m\u0131z olmal\u0131d\u0131r. Zira, insanlar olarak daima iyili\u011fi hat\u0131rlamaya, do\u011fruyu tekrar tekrar duymaya muhta\u00e7 oldu\u011fumuzu unutmamal\u0131y\u0131z. Peygamberlerin varl\u0131\u011f\u0131, onlar\u0131n bize b\u0131rakt\u0131\u011f\u0131 miraslar\u0131 bu ihtiyac\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n apa\u00e7\u0131k bir g\u00f6stergesidir!<\/p>\n<p>Cen\u00e2b-\u0131 Hak bizi hidayete ermi\u015f hidayet rehberleri k\u0131ls\u0131n! Adab\u0131na uygun nasihat veren ve bize y\u00f6nlendirilen nasihatleri kabul eden kullar\u0131ndan eylesin. \u00c2min<\/p>\n<p>[EK:] <strong>Bar\u0131\u015f P\u0131nar\u0131<\/strong> ad\u0131yla kuzey Suriye\u2019ye ba\u015flat\u0131lan harekat\u0131n ba\u015far\u0131yla ve hay\u0131rla neticelenmesini ba\u015fta \u00fclkemiz ve milletimiz olmak \u00fczere bu hareketin b\u00f6lgede huzura bar\u0131\u015fa karde\u015fli\u011fe vesile olmas\u0131n\u0131 diliyoruz. Ba\u015fta Suriye halk\u0131 olmak \u00fczere b\u00f6lge halklar\u0131n\u0131n esenlikle evlerine d\u00f6nmelerine, da\u011f\u0131lan yuvalar\u0131n yeniden in\u015fas\u0131na, y\u0131k\u0131lan ve enkaza d\u00f6nen kadim \u015fehirlerin yeniden ya\u015fanabilir \u015fehirlere d\u00f6nmesine ve en \u00f6nemlisi y\u0131llard\u0131r anlams\u0131z bir \u015fekilde d\u00f6k\u00fclen kan\u0131n durmas\u0131na, akan g\u00f6z ya\u015f\u0131n\u0131n dinmesine vesile olmas\u0131n\u0131 rabbimden niyaz ediyoruz.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"#_ftnref1\" name=\"_ftn1\">[1]<\/a> M\u00fcslim, \u0130m\u00e2n, 95<br \/>\n<a href=\"#_ftnref2\" name=\"_ftn2\">[2]<\/a> T\u00e2h\u00e2 suresi, 20:44<br \/>\n<a href=\"#_ftnref3\" name=\"_ftn3\">[3]<\/a> Bkz. Musannef Abdurrazz\u00e2k Es-San\u2019\u00e2n\u00ee (1983) 10\/232 H.No:18944<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/20191011-Hutbe-G\u00fczel-Nasihat-Etmenin-\u015eart\u0131-Samimiyet.pdf\">Hutbe-G\u00fczel Nasihat Etmenin \u015eart\u0131 Samimiyet<\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/20191011-Hutba-Arabisch.pdf\">Hutbe-Arap\u00e7a<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Muhterem Karde\u015flerim!<br \/>\n\u0130nsanlar olarak nasihate, do\u011frular\u0131 ve hakikatleri hat\u0131rlamaya ihtiyac\u0131m\u0131z var. Dolay\u0131s\u0131yla g\u00f6nl\u00fc zengin, kucaklay\u0131c\u0131, s\u0131cak ve samimi \u015fekilde bize nasihat eden karde\u015flerimiz olmadan da varl\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 bir \u015fekilde devam ettirmemiz m\u00fcmk\u00fcn de\u011fil. Bu hakikati Resul-i Ekrem Efendimiz \ufdfa \u201cDin nasihattir.\u201d  buyurarak ifade etmi\u015ftir.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":31314,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"ngg_post_thumbnail":0},"categories":[23242],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/37977"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=37977"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/37977\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":37979,"href":"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/37977\/revisions\/37979"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/31314"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=37977"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=37977"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=37977"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}