{"id":38087,"date":"2019-11-01T09:25:09","date_gmt":"2019-11-01T08:25:09","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/?p=38087"},"modified":"2019-11-01T09:25:09","modified_gmt":"2019-11-01T08:25:09","slug":"hutbe-nikahin-gerekliligi-ve-baglayiciligi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/tr\/hutbe-nikahin-gerekliligi-ve-baglayiciligi\/","title":{"rendered":"Hutbe: Nik\u00e2h\u0131n Gereklili\u011fi ve Ba\u011flay\u0131c\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong>Muhterem M\u00fcminler!<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u015eer\u2019i kurallar d\u00e2hilinde olu\u015fan nik\u00e2h akdi ge\u00e7erlidir ve evlenenler i\u00e7in ba\u011flay\u0131c\u0131d\u0131r. K\u0131y\u0131lan nik\u00e2h d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcnden \u00f6nce olsa bile, hem erkek hem de kad\u0131n e\u015fler olma sorumlulu\u011funu y\u00fcklenmek durumundad\u0131rlar. D\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fcn yap\u0131lmamas\u0131 nik\u00e2h\u0131n hen\u00fcz ge\u00e7ersiz oldu\u011fu manas\u0131na gelmez. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn evlili\u011fin ilan\u0131 demektir. \u00d6yle ise nik\u00e2h nedir?<\/p>\n<p>Nik\u00e2h, kelime olarak <em>\u201cbirle\u015ftirme, bir araya getirme; evlenme, evlilik; cinsel ili\u015fki\u201d<\/em> gibi anlamlara gelir. Dinimizde ise, \u015fer\u2018i \u015fartlar d\u00e2hilinde aralar\u0131nda evlenme yasa\u011f\u0131 olmayan bir erkekle bir kad\u0131n\u0131n hayatlar\u0131n\u0131 ebed\u00ee olarak birle\u015ftirmelerini sa\u011flayan akittir. Ailenin temelini nik\u00e2h akdi te\u015fkil eder ve ayn\u0131 zamanda bir ibadettir. Bu durum b\u00fct\u00fcn semavi dinlerde ayn\u0131d\u0131r. Nik\u00e2h akdi, kad\u0131n ve erke\u011fe \u00f6zel bir mahremiyet ve payla\u015f\u0131m alan\u0131 olu\u015fturur. \u0130nsan soyunun devam\u0131na me\u015fru olarak katk\u0131 sa\u011flar. Bundan dolay\u0131d\u0131r ki Cen\u00e2b-\u0131 Hak Kur\u2019\u00e2n-\u0131 Ker\u00eem\u2019de \u015f\u00f6yle buyurmu\u015ftur: <strong>\u201c\u0130\u00e7inizdeki bek\u00e2rlar\u0131, k\u00f6lelerinizden ve cariyelerinizden salih olanlar\u0131 evlendirin. E\u011fer yoksul iseler, Allah onlar\u0131 l\u00fctfu ile zenginle\u015ftirir. Allah l\u00fctfu bol oland\u0131r, bilendir.\u201d<a href=\"#_ftn1\" name=\"_ftnref1\">[1]<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>De\u011ferli Karde\u015flerim!<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Peygamber Efendimiz \ufdfa, <strong>\u201cNik\u00e2h benim s\u00fcnnetimdendir. Kim s\u00fcnnetime<\/strong> <strong>g\u00f6re amel etmezse benden de\u011fildir.\u201d<\/strong><a href=\"#_ftn2\" name=\"_ftnref2\">[2]<\/a> buyurmu\u015f ve nik\u00e2h\u0131n dinimizdeki \u00f6nemli yerine i\u015faret etmi\u015ftir. Ayr\u0131ca nik\u00e2h\u0131n, \u00fczerinde son derece titizlik g\u00f6sterilmesi gerekli olan bir akit oldu\u011funa dair de <strong>\u201c\u00dc\u00e7 \u015feyin ciddisi de ciddi, \u015fakas\u0131 da ciddidir. Bunlar nik\u00e2h, talak ve ric\u2019at <\/strong>(yani ric\u2019i talak ile bo\u015fanm\u0131\u015f kar\u0131s\u0131na d\u00f6nmek)<strong>.\u201d<a href=\"#_ftn3\" name=\"_ftnref3\">[3]<\/a> <\/strong>buyurmu\u015f ve nik\u00e2h\u0131n hafife al\u0131nmamas\u0131n\u0131 tembihlemi\u015ftir.<br \/>\nZira nik\u00e2h vas\u0131tas\u0131yla nesiller kar\u0131\u015fmaktan korunur; koruma alt\u0131na aln\u0131r. Nik\u00e2h, ki\u015fiyi fuh\u015fa s\u00fcr\u00fcklenmekten korur ve iffetini muhafaza eder. Bu ba\u011flamda Efendimiz \ufdfa \u015f\u00f6yle buyurmu\u015ftur: <strong>\u201cSizden evlenmeye g\u00fcc\u00fc yeten evlensin, \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc evlilik g\u00f6z\u00fcn harama bakmas\u0131na m\u00e2ni olur; iffet ve namusu muhafaza eder.\u201d<a href=\"#_ftn4\" name=\"_ftnref4\">[4]<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Toplumun bozulma s\u00fcreci aileden ba\u015flar. Aile temeli sa\u011flam olan milletler daima ayakta kal\u0131r. Nik\u00e2hla olu\u015fan aile kurumu kutsald\u0131r. Dolay\u0131s\u0131yla birbirlerine evet diyen bir kad\u0131nla erkek, o andan itibaren \u00e7ok b\u00fcy\u00fck sorumluluk alt\u0131na girmi\u015flerdir. Evlili\u011fin taraflara y\u00fckledi\u011fi hak ve vecibelere muhatap olmu\u015flard\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Aziz Karde\u015flerim!<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u0130\u00e7inde bulundu\u011fumuz d\u00f6nemde ve ortamda harama d\u00fc\u015fmeme veya ba\u015fka sebeplerle gen\u00e7ler bazen kendi aralar\u0131nda bazen de ailelerinin bilgileri d\u00e2hilinde ni\u015fanl\u0131l\u0131k d\u00f6nemlerinde, f\u0131k\u0131h kitaplar\u0131m\u0131zda s\u0131n\u0131rlar\u0131 \u00e7izilen kurallara uygun bir \u015fekilde nikah merasimi yap\u0131yorlar. \u00c7o\u011fu zaman bir problem ya\u015fanmadan d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn t\u00f6renlerini de yap\u0131yorlar. Ancak bazen ni\u015fanl\u0131l\u0131k d\u00f6nemlerinde ayr\u0131lma durumu olabiliyor. O zaman da var olan nik\u00e2h ya ciddiye al\u0131nm\u0131yor, ya da bo\u015fama hakk\u0131 olan ki\u015fi bo\u015famaya yana\u015fm\u0131yor. B\u00fcy\u00fck ailevi sorunlar ya\u015fan\u0131yor. B\u00f6yle bir problemle kar\u015f\u0131la\u015fmamak i\u00e7in, hem gen\u00e7ler hem de ebeveynler son derece dikkatli olmal\u0131d\u0131rlar. Ni\u015fanl\u0131l\u0131k d\u00f6nemini fazla uzatmadan ni\u015fan\u0131 d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcne ba\u011flamal\u0131d\u0131rlar. K\u0131z da erkek de neye \u201cevet\u201d dediklerini bilmelidirler. Evet s\u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fcn kendilerini hangi sorumluluklarla ba\u015fba\u015fa b\u0131rakt\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u015fuuruna varmal\u0131d\u0131rlar. Yapt\u0131klar\u0131 i\u015fin son derece \u00f6nemli oldu\u011funu bilip ona g\u00f6re ad\u0131m atmal\u0131d\u0131rlar. Elbette nik\u00e2h yapmadan da haram s\u0131n\u0131rlar\u0131n\u0131 zorlayacak yak\u0131nla\u015fmalardan sak\u0131nmal\u0131d\u0131rlar.<\/p>\n<p>Rabbimiz, \u00fcmmet-i Muhammed\u2019i nik\u00e2h\u0131n de\u011ferini ve \u00f6nemini anlamakta ve buna binaen evliliklerini Allah\u2019\u0131n r\u0131zas\u0131na uygun bir \u015fekilde in\u015fa etmekte muvaffak k\u0131ls\u0131n. Amin.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"#_ftnref1\" name=\"_ftn1\">[1]<\/a> N\u00fbr suresi, 24:32<br \/>\n<a href=\"#_ftnref2\" name=\"_ftn2\">[2]<\/a> \u0130bn M\u00e2ce, Nik\u00e2h, H. No: 1846<br \/>\n<a href=\"#_ftnref3\" name=\"_ftn3\">[3]<\/a> Eb\u00fb D\u00e2v\u00fbd, Tal\u00e2k, H. No: 2194<br \/>\n<a href=\"#_ftnref4\" name=\"_ftn4\">[4]<\/a> M\u00fcslim, Nik\u00e2h, 1, H. No: 1400<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/20191101-Hutbe-Nikah\u0131n-Gereklili\u011fi-ve-Ba\u011flay\u0131c\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131.pdf\">Hutbe-Nikah\u0131n Gereklili\u011fi ve Ba\u011flay\u0131c\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131<\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/20191101-Hutba-Arabisch.pdf\">Hutbe-Arap\u00e7a<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Muhterem M\u00fcminler!<br \/>\n\u015eer\u2019i kurallar d\u00e2hilinde olu\u015fan nik\u00e2h akdi ge\u00e7erlidir ve evlenenler i\u00e7in ba\u011flay\u0131c\u0131d\u0131r. K\u0131y\u0131lan nik\u00e2h d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcnden \u00f6nce olsa bile, hem erkek hem de kad\u0131n e\u015fler olma sorumlulu\u011funu y\u00fcklenmek durumundad\u0131rlar. D\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fcn yap\u0131lmamas\u0131 nik\u00e2h\u0131n hen\u00fcz ge\u00e7ersiz oldu\u011fu manas\u0131na gelmez. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn evlili\u011fin ilan\u0131 demektir. \u00d6yle ise nik\u00e2h nedir?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":31300,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"ngg_post_thumbnail":0},"categories":[23242],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/38087"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=38087"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/38087\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":38088,"href":"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/38087\/revisions\/38088"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/31300"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=38087"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=38087"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=38087"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}