{"id":38864,"date":"2020-07-02T23:54:58","date_gmt":"2020-07-02T21:54:58","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/?p=38864"},"modified":"2020-07-02T23:54:58","modified_gmt":"2020-07-02T21:54:58","slug":"hutbe-ailenin-kiymetini-bilmek","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/tr\/hutbe-ailenin-kiymetini-bilmek\/","title":{"rendered":"Hutbe: Ailenin K\u0131ymetini Bilmek"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong>Aziz M\u00fcsl\u00fcmanlar!<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Allah Azze ve Celle, Kur\u2019\u00e2n-\u0131 Ker\u00eem\u2019de,&nbsp;<strong>\u201cOnun delillerinden biri de kendilerine (meyledip) \u00fclfet edesiniz diye kendi (cinsi)nizden size e\u015fler yaratmas\u0131 ve aran\u0131zda bir sevgi ve bir \u015fefkat k\u0131lmas\u0131d\u0131r. \u015e\u00fcphesiz ki bunda, d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnecek olan bir kavim i\u00e7in nice deliller vard\u0131r.\u201d<\/strong><a href=\"#_ftn1\" name=\"_ftnref1\"><strong>[1]<\/strong><\/a><strong>&nbsp;<\/strong>buyurmaktad\u0131r. Nik\u00e2h ile temeli at\u0131lan aile hayat\u0131n\u0131n huzur ve saadet dolu bir \u015fekilde ilerlemesinin \u015fart\u0131 kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131kl\u0131 sevgi ve ho\u015fg\u00f6r\u00fcd\u00fcr. Ailede mutluluk h\u00e2kim de\u011filse maalesef bo\u015fanma da ka\u00e7\u0131n\u0131lmaz olabilmektedir. Me\u015fru bir nik\u00e2hla bir araya gelmi\u015f e\u015flerin zaruret olmad\u0131k\u00e7a ayr\u0131lmalar\u0131 ise dinimizde ho\u015f g\u00f6r\u00fclmemektedir.<\/p>\n<p>Peygamber Efendimiz \ufdfa, <strong>\u201cHelal \u015feyler i\u00e7erisinde Allah\u2019a <\/strong>\ufdfb<strong> en sevimsiz geleni bo\u015fanmad\u0131r.\u201d<\/strong><a href=\"#_ftn2\" name=\"_ftnref2\"><strong>[2]<\/strong><\/a> buyurarak bo\u015fanmalara nas\u0131l bakmam\u0131z gerekti\u011fini a\u00e7\u0131klam\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. Evlenmek isteyen ki\u015filere de: \u201c<strong>Evlenin fakat bo\u015fanmay\u0131n, Allah <\/strong>\ufdfb<strong> zevk i\u00e7in evlenip bo\u015fanan erkek ve kad\u0131nlar\u0131 sevmez.\u201d<a href=\"#_ftn3\" name=\"_ftnref3\">[3]<\/a> <\/strong>diye nasihat etmi\u015ftir.<\/p>\n<p><strong>De\u011ferli M\u00fcminler!<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Y\u00fcce dinimiz \u0130slam, erkeklere e\u015flerine iyi davranmalar\u0131n\u0131, onlara ho\u015fg\u00f6r\u00fc, yumu\u015fakl\u0131k, g\u00fczel huy ve sab\u0131rla muamele etmelerini emretmi\u015ftir. Kusurlar\u0131n\u0131 de\u011fil, iyi y\u00f6nlerini g\u00f6rmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmalar\u0131n\u0131 istemi\u015f, e\u011fer e\u015flerinde bir kusur g\u00f6r\u00fcrlerse bu kusurlar\u0131n kendileri i\u00e7in pek \u00e7ok hayra sebep olaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 haber vermi\u015ftir. Rabbimiz \u015f\u00f6yle buyurur: \u201c<strong>Onlarla (e\u015flerinizle) iyi ge\u00e7inin! Fakat onlardan ho\u015flanmazsan\u0131z art\u0131k (sabrediniz,) olur ki bir \u015fey ho\u015funuza gitmez de Allah <\/strong>\ufdfb<strong> onda bir\u00e7ok hay\u0131r takdir etmi\u015f bulunur.\u201d<a href=\"#_ftn4\" name=\"_ftnref4\">[4]<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Toplumun yap\u0131 ta\u015f\u0131 olan ailelerdeki bo\u015fanma nedenlerine bakt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zda, maalesef manevi de\u011ferlerin yok olu\u015fu, k\u00fclt\u00fcr farkl\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131, bencillik, sayg\u0131s\u0131zl\u0131k, sorumsuzluk gibi sebeplerin g\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fczde \u00f6nemli rol oynad\u0131\u011f\u0131 g\u00f6r\u00fclmektedir.<\/p>\n<p>Bazen de ekonomik zorluklar, aile i\u00e7i \u015fiddet, ileti\u015fim bozuklu\u011fu, l\u00fcks ve israf d\u00fc\u015fk\u00fcnl\u00fc\u011f\u00fc ailedeki insicam\u0131 bozabiliyor. Bununla birlikte, bilhassa medyada aile hayat\u0131 k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fcmsenmektedir. Film ve dizilerde bo\u015fanma ve aldatma \u00e2deta \u00f6zendirilmekte, aile kurumu hafife al\u0131narak \u00e2deta insanlar ayr\u0131l\u0131\u011fa ve yaln\u0131z ya\u015famaya te\u015fvik edilmektedir.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Muhterem M\u00fcsl\u00fcmanlar!<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Aile kurumunun devam\u0131 i\u00e7in mutlaka maddi-manevi bir\u00e7ok tedbir al\u0131nmas\u0131 gerekir. G\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc bir toplum ancak sa\u011flam bir aile yap\u0131s\u0131 ile m\u00fcmk\u00fcnd\u00fcr. &nbsp;Dolay\u0131s\u0131yla evlilik ve aile kurumunun sa\u011flam temellere oturtulmas\u0131, toplumumuz a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131ndan b\u00fcy\u00fck \u00f6nem arz etmektedir. Evlili\u011fin devam\u0131 i\u00e7in e\u015flerin e\u011fitiminin yan\u0131nda kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131kl\u0131 anlay\u0131\u015f ve b\u00fcy\u00fck fed\u00e2karl\u0131klar gerekmektedir. Her m\u00fcmin din\u00ee anlamda evlilik, bo\u015fanma ve aile hukuku konusunu ilmih\u00e2l kitaplar\u0131ndan etrafl\u0131ca okumal\u0131, anlamal\u0131 ve buna g\u00f6re ya\u015famal\u0131d\u0131r. Bu hususlar her m\u00fcminin haf\u0131zas\u0131nda abdest, namaz ve oru\u00e7 konusu kadar yer etmelidir. Bo\u015fanma sonras\u0131 ortada kalan \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n genel anlamda anne ve baba sevgisinden uzakta yeti\u015fmeleri toplum i\u00e7erisinde onar\u0131lmas\u0131 g\u00fc\u00e7 derin yaralara sebebiyet verebilmektedir.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Aziz Karde\u015flerim!<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Unutmayal\u0131m ki Allah Te\u00e2l\u00e2\u2019n\u0131n ad\u0131yla nik\u00e2hland\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z e\u015flerimiz ve bizlere l\u00fctfedilen evlatlar\u0131m\u0131z bizler i\u00e7in b\u00fcy\u00fck bir nimettir. Bize d\u00fc\u015fen, e\u015fimizle, evlatlar\u0131m\u0131zla el ele verip hep birlikte hangi ko\u015fulda olursa olsun bu emaneti zayi etmemek ve bu nimetin k\u0131ymetini bilmektir.<\/p>\n<p>Hutbemizi Kur\u2019\u00e2n-\u0131 Ker\u00eem\u2019deki \u015fu dua ile bitirmek istiyorum: <strong>\u201cRabbimiz! Bize g\u00f6z\u00fcm\u00fcz\u00fc ayd\u0131nlatacak e\u015fler ve z\u00fcrriyetler ba\u011f\u0131\u015fla ve bizi takva sahiplerine \u00f6nder k\u0131l!\u201d<a href=\"#_ftn5\" name=\"_ftnref5\">[5]<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Y\u00fcce Mevlam\u0131z, \u00fcmmet-i Muhammed\u2019i ve i\u00e7erisinde ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z toplumumuzu ba\u015fta bo\u015fanma olmak \u00fczere her t\u00fcrl\u00fc ayr\u0131l\u0131ktan, tefrikadan muhafaza buyursun. Evliliklerimizde birlik ve beraberli\u011fimizi daim eylesin. Amin.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"#_ftnref1\" name=\"_ftn1\">[1]<\/a> R\u00fbm suresi, 30:21<br \/>\n<a href=\"#_ftnref2\" name=\"_ftn2\">[2]<\/a> Eb\u00fb D\u00e2v\u00fbd, Tal\u00e2k, 3<br \/>\n<a href=\"#_ftnref3\" name=\"_ftn3\">[3]<\/a> M\u00fcsned-i Bezz\u00e2r, 8\/70, H.No: 3064<br \/>\n<a href=\"#_ftnref4\" name=\"_ftn4\">[4]<\/a> Nis\u00e2 suresi, 4:19<br \/>\n<a href=\"#_ftnref5\" name=\"_ftn5\">[5]<\/a> Furk\u00e2n suresi, 25:74<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/20200703-Hutbe-Ailenin-K\u0131ymetini-Bilmek.pdf\">Hutbe-Ailenin K\u0131ymetini Bilmek<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Aziz M\u00fcsl\u00fcmanlar!<br \/>\nAllah Azze ve Celle, Kur\u2019\u00e2n-\u0131 Ker\u00eem\u2019de, \u201cOnun delillerinden biri de kendilerine (meyledip) \u00fclfet edesiniz diye kendi (cinsi)nizden size e\u015fler yaratmas\u0131 ve aran\u0131zda bir sevgi ve bir \u015fefkat k\u0131lmas\u0131d\u0131r. \u015e\u00fcphesiz ki bunda, d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnecek olan bir kavim i\u00e7in nice deliller vard\u0131r.\u201d  buyurmaktad\u0131r. Nik\u00e2h ile temeli at\u0131lan aile hayat\u0131n\u0131n huzur ve saadet dolu bir \u015fekilde ilerlemesinin \u015fart\u0131 kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131kl\u0131 sevgi ve ho\u015fg\u00f6r\u00fcd\u00fcr. Ailede mutluluk h\u00e2kim de\u011filse maalesef bo\u015fanma da ka\u00e7\u0131n\u0131lmaz olabilmektedir. Me\u015fru bir nik\u00e2hla bir araya gelmi\u015f e\u015flerin zaruret olmad\u0131k\u00e7a ayr\u0131lmalar\u0131 ise dinimizde ho\u015f g\u00f6r\u00fclmemektedir. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":31397,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"ngg_post_thumbnail":0},"categories":[23242],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/38864"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=38864"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/38864\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":38865,"href":"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/38864\/revisions\/38865"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/31397"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=38864"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=38864"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=38864"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}