{"id":38934,"date":"2020-07-30T23:09:25","date_gmt":"2020-07-30T21:09:25","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/?p=38934"},"modified":"2020-07-30T23:09:25","modified_gmt":"2020-07-30T21:09:25","slug":"hutbe-duenyadaki-cennetimiz-aile","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/tr\/hutbe-duenyadaki-cennetimiz-aile\/","title":{"rendered":"Hutbe: D\u00fcnyadaki Cennetimiz: Aile"},"content":{"rendered":"

De\u011ferli M\u00fcminler!<\/strong><\/p>\n

Aile kurumu, Hz. \u00c2dem ve Hz. Havva ile ba\u015flayan ve insanl\u0131k tarihinde bu zamana kadar hi\u00e7 de\u011fi\u015fmeyen sabit bir de\u011ferdir. \u0130nsan\u0131n yeme, i\u00e7me ve bar\u0131nma gibi fiziki ihtiya\u00e7lar\u0131 oldu\u011fu gibi, manevi ihtiya\u00e7lar\u0131 da vard\u0131r. Bu manevi ihtiya\u00e7lar\u0131n en \u00f6nemlilerinden birisi de \u015f\u00fcphesiz ki aile kurmakt\u0131r. Bu hakikati Rabbimiz, bize \u015fu \u00e2yet-i ker\u00eemede hat\u0131rlatmaktad\u0131r: \u201cKayna\u015fman\u0131z i\u00e7in size kendi cinsinizden e\u015fler yarat\u0131p aran\u0131zda sevgi ve merhamet peyda etmesi de Onun (varl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131n) delillerindendir. Do\u011frusu bunda, iyi d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnen bir kavim i\u00e7in ibretler vard\u0131r.\u201d[1]<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n

Farkl\u0131 anne-babadan ve \u00e7evreden iki yabanc\u0131 insan, usul\u00fcne g\u00f6re bir nik\u00e2h akdi ger\u00e7ekle\u015ftirdikleri andan itibaren birbirilerine helal olur. \u0130ki yabanc\u0131 aile birbirinin akrabas\u0131 h\u00e2line gelir ve aile kurmu\u015f olurlar. Kalplere h\u00fckmeden Allah (c.c.), iki farkl\u0131 insana kalb\u00ee \u00fclfet vererek, onlar\u0131 d\u00fcnyada birbirine en yak\u0131n ki\u015fi, yani e\u015f k\u0131lmaktad\u0131r. \u201cNik\u00e2hta keramet vard\u0131r.\u201d s\u00f6z\u00fc, muhtemeldir ki bu harikulade olay\u0131 bize tasvir ediyor.<\/p>\n

Ayn\u0131 birlik ve beraberlik nik\u00e2hs\u0131z bir \u015fekilde ger\u00e7ekle\u015fse, bunun aksine helal ve sevap de\u011fil, haram ve g\u00fcnah i\u015flenmi\u015f olunur. Rahmet de\u011fil felaket, huzur de\u011fil darg\u0131nl\u0131k, sevin\u00e7 de\u011fil pi\u015fmanl\u0131k olur. Bug\u00fcn ise, \u00f6zellikle gen\u00e7ler aras\u0131nda bu gayrime\u015fru birlik ve beraberliklerin yayg\u0131n olmas\u0131n\u0131n bir\u00e7ok sebebi vard\u0131r. Toplumda ortaya \u00e7\u0131kan ve gelenek h\u00e2line d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015fm\u00fc\u015f olan gereksiz masraflar ile, evlili\u011fin mali bir y\u00fcke d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015ft\u00fcr\u00fcl\u00fcp zorla\u015ft\u0131r\u0131lmas\u0131, bunlar\u0131n aras\u0131nda en fazla g\u00f6ze batan\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n

Aziz Cemaat!<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u0130nsano\u011flu unutmaya mahk\u00fbmdur. Bir evlilikte \u00e7o\u011fu zaman taraflar e\u015flerinin g\u00fczel hasletlerini g\u00f6z ard\u0131 eder, k\u00f6t\u00fc huylar\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6z \u00f6n\u00fcne getirir. Genelde kendi haklar\u0131n\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcr ve kar\u015f\u0131 tarafa bu hususta bask\u0131 yapar. H\u00e2lbuki, kar\u015f\u0131 taraf\u0131n haklar\u0131na odaklan\u0131p onlar\u0131 yerine getirmeye gayret etsek ve e\u015flerimize kar\u015f\u0131 daha m\u00fcsamahak\u00e2r davransak, evlerimizde sevgi ve sayg\u0131n\u0131n h\u00e2kim olmas\u0131na katk\u0131 sa\u011flam\u0131\u015f oluruz.  
\nBu \u015fekilde aile i\u00e7i \u00e7at\u0131\u015fmalar\u0131n ve son zamanlarda daha yayg\u0131n h\u00e2le gelen bo\u015fanmalar\u0131n \u00f6n\u00fcne ge\u00e7ilmi\u015f olur. Efendimiz \ufdfa\u2019in, aile fertlerinin birbirlerine hay\u0131rl\u0131 davranmalar\u0131n\u0131 emreden \u015fu had\u00ees-i \u015ferifi kula\u011f\u0131m\u0131za k\u00fcpe olsun: \u201cSizin en hay\u0131rl\u0131n\u0131z, ailesine kar\u015f\u0131 en hay\u0131rl\u0131 davranand\u0131r. Ben de aileme kar\u015f\u0131 en hay\u0131rl\u0131 davranan\u0131n\u0131z\u0131m.\u201d<\/strong>[2]<\/a><\/p>\n

Muhterem M\u00fcsl\u00fcmanlar!<\/strong><\/p>\n

Aile hayat\u0131m\u0131z\u0131, Allah\u2019\u0131n izniyle d\u00fcnyadaki cennetimize \u00e7evirebiliriz. Bu ulvi maksada ula\u015fabilmek i\u00e7in \u015fu hususlara dikkat edilmeli:<\/p>\n

    \n
  1. Dindarl\u0131k; 2.<\/strong> Fazilet; 3.<\/strong> Muhabbet; 4.<\/strong> Merhamet; 5.<\/strong> Sad\u00e2kat.[3]<\/a> Ancak bu \u00e7aba tek tarafl\u0131 olursa tatmin edici bir neticeye var\u0131lamaz.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

    Dindarl\u0131k<\/strong> ve fazilet<\/strong> di\u011fer t\u00fcm g\u00fczel vas\u0131flar i\u00e7in bir temel olu\u015fturur. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc din olarak \u0130slam, insana g\u00fczel vas\u0131flar kazand\u0131r\u0131r. Mevlana Hazretlerinin \u015fu temsili bu hakikati ne g\u00fczel ifade eder: \u201cAkl\u0131m kalbimin kula\u011f\u0131na e\u011fildi ve sordu: \u2018Din nedir?\u2019 Kalbim de \u015fu cevab\u0131 verdi: Din, edepten ibarettir.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n

    Muhabbet<\/strong> ise ailenin mayas\u0131 ve g\u0131das\u0131d\u0131r. Ne vakit azal\u0131rsa d\u00fcnyadaki cennetimiz olan ailemiz sallanmaya ba\u015flar. Yani muhabbet, iki insan\u0131n kalpleri vas\u0131tas\u0131yla birbiriyle kurdu\u011fu ba\u011fd\u0131r, \u201cKalpten kalbe yol vard\u0131r.\u201d s\u00f6z\u00fc de i\u015fte bunu ifade eder.<\/p>\n

    Merhamet<\/strong> \u00f6l\u00e7\u00fcl\u00fc olmal\u0131. A\u015f\u0131r\u0131s\u0131 zaafa d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcr\u00fcr. Merhametin azl\u0131\u011f\u0131 ise kalbe kat\u0131l\u0131k ve kabal\u0131k verir, nezaketsizlik veya ge\u00e7imsizli\u011fe sebep olur. K\u0131vam\u0131nda olan merhamet ise yuvaya saadet getirir.<\/p>\n

    Sadakat<\/strong> ise e\u015flerin birbirine hem s\u00f6zlerinde hem de fiillerinde do\u011fru ve itidalli olmalar\u0131n\u0131 gerektirir. Yalan ise ailedeki sadakati bitiren \u00e7irkin bir huydur. Bu sadakat ayn\u0131 zamanda e\u015flerin kay\u0131npeder ve kay\u0131nvalidelerine kar\u015f\u0131 g\u00f6sterilmeli. Her e\u015f kendi anne-babas\u0131na kar\u015f\u0131 nas\u0131l davran\u0131lmas\u0131n\u0131 arzu ediyorsa, ayn\u0131 \u015fekilde kendisi de kay\u0131npeder ve kay\u0131nvalidesine kar\u015f\u0131 g\u00fczel bir ahlak sergilemeli. B\u00fcy\u00fcklerimizin \u201cEden bulur.\u201d<\/em> s\u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc akl\u0131m\u0131zda zinde tutarak davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 da g\u00f6rece\u011fimizi unutmamal\u0131y\u0131z.<\/p>\n

    Hutbemizi, bize d\u00fcnyadaki cenneti kazand\u0131racak \u015fu veciz beyitle bitirmek istiyorum:<\/p>\n

    \u201cEdep bir t\u00e2c imi\u015f n\u00fbr-i Hud\u00e2\u2019dan
    \nGiy ol t\u00e2c\u0131, em\u00een ol her bel\u00e2dan\u2026\u201d<\/p>\n

    [1]<\/a> R\u00fbm suresi, 30:21
    \n    [2]<\/a> Tirmiz\u00ee, Men\u00e2k\u0131b, 3895
    \n    [3]<\/a> Bkz. Osman N\u00fbr\u00ee Topba\u015f, D\u00fcnyadaki Cennet Huzurlu Aile Yuvas\u0131, \u0130stanbul, 2006, S. 91 \u2013 92.<\/p>\n

    Hutbe-D\u00fcnyadaki Cennetimiz: Aile<\/a><\/p>\n

    Hutbe-Arap\u00e7a<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

    De\u011ferli M\u00fcminler!
    \nAile kurumu, Hz. \u00c2dem ve Hz. Havva ile ba\u015flayan ve insanl\u0131k tarihinde bu zamana kadar hi\u00e7 de\u011fi\u015fmeyen sabit bir de\u011ferdir. \u0130nsan\u0131n yeme, i\u00e7me ve bar\u0131nma gibi fiziki ihtiya\u00e7lar\u0131 oldu\u011fu gibi, manevi ihtiya\u00e7lar\u0131 da vard\u0131r. Bu manevi ihtiya\u00e7lar\u0131n en \u00f6nemlilerinden birisi de \u015f\u00fcphesiz ki aile kurmakt\u0131r. Bu hakikati Rabbimiz, bize \u015fu \u00e2yet-i ker\u00eemede hat\u0131rlatmaktad\u0131r: \u201cKayna\u015fman\u0131z i\u00e7in size kendi cinsinizden e\u015fler yarat\u0131p aran\u0131zda sevgi ve merhamet peyda etmesi de Onun (varl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131n) delillerindendir. Do\u011frusu bunda, iyi d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnen bir kavim i\u00e7in ibretler vard\u0131r.\u201d <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":31397,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"ngg_post_thumbnail":0},"categories":[23242],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/38934"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=38934"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/38934\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":38935,"href":"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/38934\/revisions\/38935"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/31397"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=38934"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=38934"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=38934"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}