{"id":42714,"date":"2021-12-02T16:30:30","date_gmt":"2021-12-02T15:30:30","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/?p=42714"},"modified":"2022-01-18T11:41:39","modified_gmt":"2022-01-18T10:41:39","slug":"aile-ici-siddet","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/tr\/aile-ici-siddet\/","title":{"rendered":"Aile \u0130\u00e7i \u015eiddet"},"content":{"rendered":"

Muhterem M\u00fcminler!<\/strong><\/p>\n

Okudu\u011fumuz \u00e2yet-i ker\u00eemede Y\u00fcce Rabbimiz \u015f\u00f6yle buyurmaktad\u0131r: \u201c\u0130man edip salih ameller i\u015fleyenlere gelince, Allah onlara m\u00fck\u00e2fatlar\u0131n\u0131 eksiksiz verecektir. Allah zalimleri sevmez.\u201d<\/strong>[1]<\/a><\/p>\n

Bu ayette Allah Te\u00e2l\u00e2, bizlere iman\u0131n ve salih amellerin \u00f6nemini vurgulamakta ve bunlar\u0131n m\u00fck\u00e2fat\u0131na ahirette nail olaca\u011f\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 hat\u0131rlatmaktad\u0131r. Ancak ayetin sonunda, \u201cAllah zalimleri sevmez.\u201d<\/strong> buyurarak, iman ve ibadetlerimize \u00f6zen g\u00f6sterirken insani ili\u015fkilerimizi ihmal etmemeyi telkin etmektedir. \u201cBen kendime ve kullar\u0131ma zulm\u00fc haram k\u0131ld\u0131m. Dolay\u0131s\u0131yla birbirinize zulmetmeyin!\u201d[2]<\/a><\/strong> buyuran Rabbimiz, bizlerden \u00f6zellikle ailevi ili\u015fkilerimizde zulmetmekten ka\u00e7\u0131n\u0131p en \u00fcst\u00fcn ahlak\u0131 sergilememizi beklemektedir.<\/p>\n

Aziz Cemaat!<\/strong><\/p>\n

Peygamber Efendimiz \ufdfa \u201cNerede nezaket varsa, orada g\u00fczellik vard\u0131r. Nezaketin bulunmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 her \u015fey \u00e7irkindir.\u201d<\/strong>[3]<\/a> buyurmu\u015ftur. \u0130nsani ili\u015fkilerimizin temelini olu\u015fturan bu muazzam had\u00ees-i \u015ferif, \u00f6zellikle aile hayat\u0131m\u0131z i\u00e7in belirleyicidir. Peygamber Efendimiz \ufdfa\u2019e en yak\u0131n olan sah\u00e2b\u00eelerden biri olan Enes (r.a.) Res\u00fbl-i Ekrem \ufdfa ile ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131 ve bize \u00f6rnek olacak bir tecr\u00fcbesini \u015f\u00f6yle anlat\u0131r: \u201cBen \u00e7ocukken Peygamber <\/strong>\ufdfa<\/strong>\u2019e Medine\u2019de on sene boyunca hizmet ettim. (Tabii ki) yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131m i\u015f her seferinde diledi\u011fi \u015fekilde olmazd\u0131. Ancak o bana bir kere olsun bile \u2018\u00f6f\u2019 demedi; \u2018Falan i\u015fi neden yapt\u0131n?\u2019 veya \u2018Falan i\u015fi yapmad\u0131n m\u0131?\u2019 diye sormad\u0131.\u201d[4]<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n

De\u011ferli Karde\u015flerim!<\/strong><\/p>\n

Aile ortam\u0131 ki\u015finin s\u0131\u011f\u0131nd\u0131\u011f\u0131 liman olmal\u0131d\u0131r. Ancak buna ra\u011fmen bir\u00e7ok ki\u015fi aile i\u00e7i \u015fiddet g\u00f6rmektedir. Bu \u00fcz\u00fcc\u00fc durumun ma\u011fduru ilk s\u0131rada kad\u0131nlar ve \u00e7ocuklar olmaktad\u0131r. Maalesef pandemi s\u00fcrecinde ortaya \u00e7\u0131kan d\u0131\u015far\u0131 \u00e7\u0131kma yasaklar\u0131yla birlikte aile i\u00e7i \u015fiddet vakalar\u0131n\u0131n da artt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 m\u00fc\u015fahede etmekteyiz. \u0130slam, ister fiziki ister psikolojik olsun, \u015fiddeti b\u00fct\u00fcn y\u00f6nleriyle, kimden yana ve kime y\u00f6nelik olursa olsun yasaklam\u0131\u015ft\u0131r.
\nGerek\u00e7esi her ne olursa olsun \u015fiddet uygulamak insan\u0131n f\u0131trat\u0131na uygun olmayan, insan onurunu zedeleyen bir davran\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. Kad\u0131na, erke\u011fe, \u00e7ocu\u011fa, ya\u015fl\u0131ya, hatta hayvana, tabiattaki a\u011faca, her \u00e7e\u015fit canl\u0131ya k\u00f6t\u00fc davranmak, haks\u0131z muamelede bulunmak hayat\u0131 ya\u015fanmaz ve \u00e7ekilmez h\u00e2le getirecektir. E\u011fer bu t\u00fcrl\u00fc s\u00fcfli davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131 do\u011frulamak i\u00e7in ayet ve hadisler istismar ediliyorsa durum daha da vahimdir.<\/p>\n

Bu bak\u0131mdan \u015fiddetin her t\u00fcrl\u00fcs\u00fcne tepki g\u00f6stermek, kar\u015f\u0131 durmak ve m\u00e2ni olmak insanl\u0131\u011f\u0131n ortak g\u00f6revlerindendir. Merhamet dini \u0130slam, her t\u00fcrden canl\u0131y\u0131 yaratan\u0131n ve ona hayat verenin Allah oldu\u011funu a\u00e7\u0131k\u00e7a bildirmi\u015ftir.<\/p>\n

Canl\u0131 cans\u0131z b\u00fct\u00fcn varl\u0131klar\u0131n Allah\u2019\u0131n emaneti olarak insanl\u0131\u011f\u0131n himayesine emanet edildi\u011fi \u00f6zellikle belirtilmi\u015ftir. Bu nedenle \u00e2lemdeki b\u00fct\u00fcn varl\u0131klara \u015fefkat ve merhametle yakla\u015fmak Allah\u2019\u0131n emanetlerine sahip \u00e7\u0131kmak anlam\u0131na geldi\u011finden biz M\u00fcsl\u00fcmanlar\u0131n imani g\u00f6revlerinden say\u0131lm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r.<\/p>\n

Muhterem M\u00fcsl\u00fcmanlar!<\/strong><\/p>\n

Kur\u2019\u00e2n-\u0131 Ker\u00eem\u2019de bize Firavun tarihin en b\u00fcy\u00fck zalimi olarak g\u00f6sterilmektedir. Tanr\u0131l\u0131k iddias\u0131 ve \u0130srailo\u011fullar\u0131na uygulad\u0131\u011f\u0131 i\u015fkencelerin yan\u0131 s\u0131ra e\u015fi olan Hz. \u00c2siye\u2019ye uygulad\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u015fiddet ile de Allah\u2019\u0131n \u00f6fkesini \u00fczere \u00e7ekmi\u015ftir. Tahrim suresinde Hz. \u00c2siye\u2019nin feryad\u0131 bize \u015f\u00f6yle aktar\u0131lmaktad\u0131r: \u201cAllah iman edenlere de Firavun\u2019un kar\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 misal vermektedir: O, \u2018Rabbim!\u2019 demi\u015fti, \u2018Y\u00fcce kat\u0131nda, cennette benim i\u00e7in bir ev yap; beni Firavun\u2019dan ve yapt\u0131klar\u0131ndan kurtar ve beni bu zalimler toplulu\u011fundan da selamete \u00e7\u0131kar!\u2019\u201d[5]<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n

Aile i\u00e7i zulm\u00fc \u00f6nlemek ad\u0131na Peygamber Efendimiz \ufdfa, sahabenin hemen hemen hepsinin bulundu\u011fu veda hacc\u0131nda \u201cKad\u0131nlar\u0131n hakk\u0131nda Allah\u2019tan sak\u0131n\u0131n. Zira siz onlar\u0131 Allah\u2019tan emanet olarak ald\u0131n\u0131z.\u201d<\/strong>[6]<\/a> diye buyurmu\u015ftur. Kendisi de bu hususta bize en b\u00fcy\u00fck \u00f6rnek olmu\u015ftur ve e\u015flerine kar\u015f\u0131 hep adil, sevgili ve sab\u0131rl\u0131 bir \u015fekilde davranm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. M\u00fcminlerin annesi olan Hz. \u00c2i\u015fe (r.a.)\u2019ya g\u00f6re, \u201cRes\u00fblullah <\/strong>\ufdfa<\/strong> hi\u00e7bir zaman bir hizmet\u00e7iye veya bir kad\u0131na vurmam\u0131\u015ft\u0131r.\u201d<\/strong>[7]<\/a><\/p>\n

Y\u00fcce Rabbimiz, bizleri ilk \u00f6nce kendi ailelerimize, sonra di\u011fer insanlara ve b\u00fct\u00fcn varl\u0131klara kar\u015f\u0131 en \u00fcst\u00fcn ahlak, yumu\u015fak huyluluk ve sab\u0131r sergileyenlerden eylesin.<\/p>\n

[1]<\/a> \u00c2l-i \u0130mr\u00e2n suresi, 3:57<\/p>\n

[2]<\/a> M\u00fcslim, Birr, 15, H. No: 2577 (had\u00ees-i kuds\u00ee)<\/p>\n

[3]<\/a> M\u00fcslim, Birr, 23, H. No: 2594<\/p>\n

[4]<\/a> Eb\u00fb D\u00e2v\u00fbd, Edeb, 1, H. No: 4774<\/p>\n

[5]<\/a> Tahr\u00eem suresi, 66:11<\/p>\n

[6]<\/a> M\u00fcslim, Hac, 19, H. No: 1218<\/p>\n

[7]<\/a> Eb\u00fb D\u00e2v\u00fbd, Edeb, 5, H. No: 4786<\/p>\n

Hutbe-Aile \u0130\u00e7i \u015eiddet<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Aile ortam\u0131 ki\u015finin s\u0131\u011f\u0131nd\u0131\u011f\u0131 liman olmal\u0131d\u0131r. Ancak buna ra\u011fmen bir\u00e7ok ki\u015fi aile i\u00e7i \u015fiddet g\u00f6rmektedir. Bu \u00fcz\u00fcc\u00fc durumun ma\u011fduru ilk s\u0131rada kad\u0131nlar ve \u00e7ocuklar olmaktad\u0131r. Maalesef pandemi s\u00fcrecinde ortaya \u00e7\u0131kan d\u0131\u015far\u0131 \u00e7\u0131kma yasaklar\u0131yla birlikte aile i\u00e7i \u015fiddet vakalar\u0131n\u0131n da artt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 m\u00fc\u015fahede etmekteyiz.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":31306,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"ngg_post_thumbnail":0},"categories":[23242],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/42714"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=42714"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/42714\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":42716,"href":"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/42714\/revisions\/42716"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/31306"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=42714"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=42714"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=42714"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}