{"id":46935,"date":"2022-11-17T14:23:00","date_gmt":"2022-11-17T13:23:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/?p=46935"},"modified":"2022-11-18T01:07:01","modified_gmt":"2022-11-18T00:07:01","slug":"hutbe-ideal-baba-olmak","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/tr\/hutbe-ideal-baba-olmak\/","title":{"rendered":"Hutbe: \u0130deal Baba Olmak"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong>Muhterem <\/strong><strong>Karde\u015flerim!<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Yery\u00fcz\u00fcndeki her canl\u0131y\u0131 di\u015fi ve erkek olarak yaratan Rabbimiz, varl\u0131klar\u0131n en de\u011ferlisi olan insan\u0131 da erkek ve kad\u0131n olarak yaratm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. Onlara birbirlerine kar\u015f\u0131 sevgi ve merhamet besletmi\u015f, her birine farkl\u0131 \u00f6zellikler vermi\u015f, bunun yan\u0131nda onlara farkl\u0131 sorumluluklar da y\u00fcklemi\u015ftir. Bu sorumluluklar\u0131n biri de \u015f\u00fcphesiz anne baba olma g\u00f6revidir. Kur\u2019\u00e2n-\u0131 Ker\u00eem\u2019de <strong>\u201cEy iman edenler! Kendinizi ve ailenizi, yak\u0131t\u0131 insanlar ve ta\u015flar olan ate\u015ften koruyun.\u201d<a href=\"#_ftn1\" name=\"_ftnref1\">[1]<\/a><\/strong> buyurulmaktad\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>Baba, ailesinin ge\u00e7imini helal yoldan sa\u011flamal\u0131, evlad\u0131na g\u00fczel bir isim koymal\u0131, \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131 \u0130slam ile terbiye etmelidir. Yani ailesine kar\u015f\u0131 hem maddi hem de manevi anlamda g\u00f6revleri vard\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Aziz Karde\u015flerim!<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Ya\u015fant\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 tanzim eden Kur\u2019\u00e2n-\u0131 Ker\u00eem\u2019de erkeklere baba olman\u0131n inceliklerinden de bahsedilmektedir. Kendisine hikmet verilmesi sebebiyle ad\u0131 Lokm\u00e2n\u2019ul-Hak\u00eem olan Lokm\u00e2n (a.s.) o\u011fluna <strong>\u201cO\u011fulcu\u011fum! Allah\u2019a ortak ko\u015fma! \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc ortak ko\u015fmak elbette b\u00fcy\u00fck bir zul\u00fcmd\u00fcr.\u201d<a href=\"#_ftn2\" name=\"_ftnref2\">[2]<\/a> <\/strong>diye \u00f6\u011f\u00fct vererek ona do\u011fru ile yanl\u0131\u015f\u0131 \u00f6\u011fretmi\u015fti. Onun <strong>\u201cO\u011fulcu\u011fum<\/strong>\u201d<a href=\"#_ftn3\" name=\"_ftnref3\">[3]<\/a> diye \u015fefkat i\u00e7eren hitab\u0131 bizlere, her ne olursa olsun evlatlar\u0131m\u0131za kar\u015f\u0131 merhametli davranmam\u0131z gerekti\u011fini \u00f6\u011fretir. \u00d6te yandan e\u015fi ve evlad\u0131yla imtihan olan N\u00fbh (a.s.)\u2019\u0131n kendisine iman etmedi\u011fi h\u00e2lde o\u011fluna <strong>\u201cHaydi yavrum gel, sen de bizimle birlikte gemiye bin.\u201d<a href=\"#_ftn4\" name=\"_ftnref4\">[4]<\/a><\/strong> diye davette bulunmas\u0131 bize neslimize kar\u015f\u0131 her \u015feye ra\u011fmen \u015fefkatli olmam\u0131z gerekti\u011fini hat\u0131rlat\u0131r. Atam\u0131z \u0130br\u00e2him (a.s.)\u2019\u0131n neslinin namaza devam edenlerden olmas\u0131 i\u00e7in yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131 dua bize sebat etmeyi ve teslim olmay\u0131 g\u00f6sterir.<\/p>\n<p><strong>K\u0131ymetli M\u00fcsl\u00fcmanlar!<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u00c7ocuklara ve kendi evlatlar\u0131na \u00e7ok d\u00fc\u015fk\u00fcn olup sevgisini g\u00f6stermeyi hi\u00e7 esirgemeyen \u015fefkat peygamberi Hz. Muhammed Mustafa (s.a.v.) de bize ideal baba olman\u0131n inceliklerini \u00f6\u011fretmektedir. Peygamberimiz evlatlar\u0131n\u0131n hidayet, takva ve g\u00fczel ahlakl\u0131 olmalar\u0131 i\u00e7in \u00e7\u0131rp\u0131nan bir baba idi. \u00c2lemlere rahmet olarak g\u00f6nderilme vasf\u0131n\u0131 \u00e7ocuklar\u0131na merhametli davranarak g\u00f6stermi\u015fti. Kap\u0131 t\u0131klay\u0131\u015f\u0131ndan Hz. F\u00e2t\u0131ma\u2019n\u0131n geldi\u011fini anlayacak kadar \u00e7ocuklar\u0131na kar\u015f\u0131 ilgiliydi. Elbette sadece kendi evlatlar\u0131na de\u011fil, \u00fcmmetin t\u00fcm evlatlar\u0131na kar\u015f\u0131 da \u015fefkatli ve merhametliydi. Bir keresinde Efendimiz \u015f\u00f6yle buyurmu\u015ftu: <strong>\u201c\u00dcmmetimin \u00e7ocuklar\u0131na, \u015feytan\u0131n ortak \u00e7\u0131kmas\u0131ndan korkar\u0131m!\u201d<\/strong> Yani \u015feytan\u0131n oyuncaklar\u0131 olmas\u0131ndan korkar\u0131m. Sahabe deh\u015fete kap\u0131l\u0131p sormu\u015ftu: <strong>\u201cY\u00e2 Res\u00fblallah! B\u00f6yle olmamas\u0131 i\u00e7in \u015feytan\u0131n tesirini nas\u0131l k\u0131rabiliriz?\u201d<\/strong> Efendimiz: <strong>\u201cOnlara sevgiyi ve hay\u00e2y\u0131 \u00f6\u011freterek!\u201d <\/strong>diye buyurarak \u00e7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131zdan sevgiyi esirgemememiz, onlara hay\u00e2y\u0131 \u00f6\u011fretmemiz gerekti\u011fine vurgu yapm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p><strong>De\u011ferli Cemaat!<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Ailemiz ve neslimiz bize emanettir. Bu emanete sahip \u00e7\u0131kmak, Allah\u2019\u0131n emretti\u011fi do\u011frultuda terbiye etmek iman\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n bir gere\u011fidir. Cennetin annelerin ayaklar\u0131 alt\u0131nda oldu\u011funu hat\u0131r\u0131m\u0131zdan \u00e7\u0131karmayarak hem \u00e7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n annesine hem de evlatlar\u0131m\u0131za kar\u015f\u0131 vazifelerimizi titizlikle icra etmek mecburiyetindeyiz. Helal lokman\u0131n temininin yan\u0131 s\u0131ra helal bir ya\u015fam alan\u0131 sunmak da elbette baban\u0131n \u00f6nemli g\u00f6revleri aras\u0131ndad\u0131r. B\u00fcy\u00fcklerimizle olan ili\u015fkilerimizin, e\u015fimize kar\u015f\u0131 davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n neslimize etki edece\u011fini, \u00e7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131za iyi veya k\u00f6t\u00fc \u00f6rnek olaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 unutmamam\u0131z gerekir.<\/p>\n<p>\u00d6zellikle sosyal medyan\u0131n hayat\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n her alan\u0131n\u0131 kapsad\u0131\u011f\u0131 g\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fczde bo\u015f vakitlerimizi evlatlar\u0131m\u0131zla yeterince ilgilenerek de\u011ferlendirmeli, onlar\u0131n zihinlerinin gayri ahlaki mecralara y\u00f6nelmesini engellemeliyiz. Peygamber Efendimiz (a.s.) <strong>\u201c\u00c7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131za ikramda bulunun; onlara g\u00fczel bir terbiye verin.\u201d<\/strong><a href=\"#_ftn5\" name=\"_ftnref5\"><strong>[5]<\/strong><\/a> diyerek evlatlar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 terbiye etmenin \u00f6neminden bahseder. \u00c7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131z istenmeyen davran\u0131\u015flar sergiledi\u011finde bu sorunun kayna\u011f\u0131n\u0131 \u00f6nce kendimizde aramal\u0131, kendimizi ve ya\u015fant\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 hesaba \u00e7ekmeliyiz. \u00c7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131z do\u011fru yerde vakit ge\u00e7irmedi\u011finde, \u201cAcaba ben do\u011fru yerde miyim?\u201d diye \u00f6nce kendimizi hesaba \u00e7ekmeli ve ona g\u00f6re hareket etmeliyiz. Yapmad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z eylemleri \u00e7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131zdan bekleyerek ba\u015far\u0131 elde edemeyiz. Unutmamal\u0131y\u0131z ki \u00e7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131z her davran\u0131\u015f\u0131m\u0131zla bizi \u00f6rnek al\u0131rlar. Baba olarak \u015fu duay\u0131 dilimizden eksik etmeyelim: \u201c<strong>Ey Rabbimiz! E\u015flerimizi ve \u00e7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 bize g\u00f6z ayd\u0131nl\u0131\u011f\u0131 k\u0131l ve bizi Allah\u2019a kar\u015f\u0131 gelmekten sak\u0131nanlara \u00f6nder eyle.\u201d<a href=\"#_ftn6\" name=\"_ftnref6\">[6]<\/a> <\/strong>Amin!<\/p>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" style=\"border-radius: 12px;\" src=\"https:\/\/open.spotify.com\/embed\/episode\/5J7xLk67DEGvk2XUSvl18B?utm_source=generator\" width=\"100%\" height=\"152\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen=\"allowfullscreen\"><\/iframe><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"#_ftnref1\" name=\"_ftn1\">[1]<\/a> Tahrim suresi, 66:6<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"#_ftnref2\" name=\"_ftn2\">[2]<\/a> Lokm\u00e2n suresi, 31:13<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"#_ftnref3\" name=\"_ftn3\">[3]<\/a> Lokm\u00e2n suresi, 31:17<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"#_ftnref4\" name=\"_ftn4\">[4]<\/a> H\u00fbd suresi, 11:42<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"#_ftnref5\" name=\"_ftn5\">[5]<\/a> \u0130bn M\u00e2ce, Edeb, 3<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"#_ftnref6\" name=\"_ftn6\">[6]<\/a> Furk\u00e2n suresi, 25:74<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/TR_18_11_22_I_deal_Baba_Olmak_.pdf\">Hutbe-T\u00fcrk\u00e7e<\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/AR_09_09_22_\u0644_\u0645_\u0633_\u0627\u062c_\u062f_\u0639_\u0646_\u0648_\u0627\u0646_\u0627\u0644\u062a_\u0633_\u0627\u0646_\u062f_\u0627\u0644_\u0627_\u062c_\u062a_\u0645_\u0627\u0639_\u064a_.pdf\">Hutbe-Arap\u00e7a<\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/NL_18_11_22_De_ideale_vader_zijn_.pdf\">Hutbe-Hollandaca<\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/NO_18_11_22_A_vaere_en_Ideell_Far_.pdf\">Hutbe-Norve\u00e7\u00e7e<\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/SV_18_11_22_Att_vara_den_idealiska_pappan_1.pdf\">Hutbe-\u0130sve\u00e7\u00e7e<\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/11\/DK_18_11_22_At_vaere_den_ideelle_far_.pdf\">Hutbe-Danca<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Yery\u00fcz\u00fcndeki her canl\u0131y\u0131 di\u015fi ve erkek olarak yaratan Rabbimiz, varl\u0131klar\u0131n en de\u011ferlisi olan insan\u0131 da erkek ve kad\u0131n olarak yaratm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. Onlara birbirlerine kar\u015f\u0131 sevgi ve merhamet besletmi\u015f, her birine farkl\u0131 \u00f6zellikler vermi\u015f, bunun yan\u0131nda onlara farkl\u0131 sorumluluklar da y\u00fcklemi\u015ftir. Bu sorumluluklar\u0131n biri de \u015f\u00fcphesiz anne baba olma g\u00f6revidir.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":31312,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"ngg_post_thumbnail":0},"categories":[23242,23239],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/46935"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=46935"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/46935\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":46941,"href":"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/46935\/revisions\/46941"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/31312"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=46935"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=46935"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=46935"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}