{"id":48676,"date":"2023-04-28T02:46:25","date_gmt":"2023-04-28T00:46:25","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/?p=48676"},"modified":"2023-04-28T02:46:25","modified_gmt":"2023-04-28T00:46:25","slug":"huzurlu-yuvayi-dogru-adimlarla-kurmak","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/tr\/huzurlu-yuvayi-dogru-adimlarla-kurmak\/","title":{"rendered":"Huzurlu Yuvay\u0131 Do\u011fru Ad\u0131mlarla Kurmak"},"content":{"rendered":"

Muhterem M\u00fcsl\u00fcmanlar!<\/strong><\/p>\n

Ailenin temeli olan evlili\u011fin birey ve toplum a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131ndan pek \u00e7ok faydas\u0131 bulunmaktad\u0131r. Her \u015feyden \u00f6nce evlilik e\u015fler aras\u0131nda huzur ve sevgi kayna\u011f\u0131d\u0131r. E\u015fler evlilik yoluyla hem dinlerini hem de birbirini tamamlayarak hayatlar\u0131n\u0131 payla\u015f\u0131rlar. Nitekim hayat rehberimiz Kur\u2019an\u2019da \u201cOnlara \u0131s\u0131n\u0131p kayna\u015fas\u0131n\u0131z diye size kendi t\u00fcr\u00fcn\u00fczden e\u015fler yarat\u0131p aran\u0131za sevgi ve \u015fefkat duygular\u0131 yerle\u015ftirmesi de Onun kan\u0131tlar\u0131ndand\u0131r. Do\u011frusu bunda iyi d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnen kimseler i\u00e7in dersler vard\u0131r.\u201d[1]<\/a> <\/strong>diye buyurularak evlilikte bir\u00e7ok hikmetin oldu\u011fu beyan edilmi\u015ftir.<\/p>\n

Evlilik, ki\u015fiyi g\u00fcnahlardan ve \u00e7e\u015fitli k\u00f6t\u00fcl\u00fcklerden muhafaza eder. Evlili\u011fin korudu\u011fu en \u00f6nemli de\u011fer ise \u0130slami ve insani de\u011ferlerin ba\u015f\u0131nda gelen iffettir. Peygamber Efendimiz (s.a.v.) \u00f6zellikle gen\u00e7lerin evlilik hayat\u0131yla yak\u0131ndan ilgilenir, onlara maddi ve manevi yard\u0131mlarda bulunurdu. \u201cEvleniniz, \u00e7o\u011fal\u0131n\u0131z, \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc ben k\u0131yamet g\u00fcn\u00fcnde sizin \u00e7oklu\u011funuzla iftihar edece\u011fim.\u201d<\/em><\/strong>[2]<\/a> diye buyurarak evlili\u011fin iftihar edilecek kadar \u00f6nemli bir kurum oldu\u011funu bizlere bildirmi\u015ftir. Bir ba\u015fka had\u00ees-i \u015ferifte ise \u201cEy gen\u00e7 toplulu\u011fu! Aran\u0131zdan evlenmeye g\u00fcc\u00fc yetenler evlensin. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc evlenmek, g\u00f6z\u00fc haramdan korumak ve iffeti muhafaza etmek i\u00e7in en iyi yoldur\u2026\u201d<\/strong><\/em>[3]<\/strong><\/a> diye buyurularak evlili\u011fin harama d\u00fc\u015fmekten de al\u0131koydu\u011fu ifade edilmi\u015ftir.<\/em><\/p>\n

Aziz Cemaat!<\/strong><\/p>\n

Mutlu ve huzurlu bir yuva kurmak, ancak do\u011fru ve helal ad\u0131mlar atmakla m\u00fcmk\u00fcnd\u00fcr. \u00c2det ve gelenek ad\u0131 alt\u0131nda mahremiyet duygumuzu zedeleyecek, gen\u00e7lerimizi maddi ve manevi anlamda zora sokacak uygulamalardan ka\u00e7\u0131nmal\u0131y\u0131z. Gerek ni\u015fan gerekse d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn merasimlerimiz \u00f6l\u00e7\u00fcl\u00fc olmal\u0131 ve m\u00fcsrif olmamal\u0131y\u0131z. Zira merasimlerimiz dinimize olan samimiyetimizin bir tezah\u00fcr\u00fcd\u00fcr.<\/p>\n

\u201c\u00d6m\u00fcrde bir kez d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn yap\u0131yoruz.\u201d bahanesiyle \u0130slam\u2019\u0131n helal \u00e7izgisini ihlal etmemeliyiz. Evlatlar\u0131m\u0131za do\u011fru ad\u0131mlarla huzurlu bir yuva kurma hususunda destek olmal\u0131, evlili\u011fi kolayla\u015ft\u0131rmak i\u00e7in elimizden geleni yapmal\u0131y\u0131z. Evlili\u011fin hen\u00fcz ba\u015flang\u0131c\u0131nda, gen\u00e7lerin maddi olarak a\u011f\u0131r bir y\u00fck\u00fcn alt\u0131na girmeleri, k\u0131sa s\u00fcrede aile i\u00e7i huzursuzluklara yol a\u00e7maktad\u0131r. Onlar\u0131n bu \u00f6nemli ad\u0131mlar\u0131nda zorla\u015ft\u0131r\u0131c\u0131 de\u011fil kolayla\u015ft\u0131r\u0131c\u0131 olmal\u0131y\u0131z. Zira Peygamberimiz (s.a.v.) \u201cEn hay\u0131rl\u0131 nik\u00e2h en kolay olan\u0131d\u0131r.\u201d<\/em><\/strong> [4]<\/strong><\/a> <\/em>diye buyurarak uymam\u0131z gereken \u00f6l\u00e7\u00fcy\u00fc bizlere hat\u0131rlatm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. \u00c7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131z imanl\u0131, \u0130slam\u2019\u0131n \u00f6l\u00e7\u00fclerine riayet eden ve helal dairesinde ya\u015famaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015fan biriyle evlendiklerinde harama d\u00fc\u015fmekten korunmu\u015f olur, bizler de hay\u0131rl\u0131 bir evlili\u011fe yard\u0131mc\u0131 olmakla Allah\u2019\u0131n ve Res\u00fblullah (s.a.v.)\u2019in ho\u015fnutlu\u011funu kazanm\u0131\u015f oluruz.<\/p>\n

De\u011ferli Gen\u00e7 Karde\u015flerim!<\/strong><\/p>\n

E\u015f se\u00e7iminde birinci kriteriniz zenginlik, makam, mevki ve zahir\u00ee \u00f6zellikler de\u011fil, iman ve ahlak g\u00fczelli\u011fi olsun. Huzur ve mutlulu\u011fu g\u00f6steri\u015fte de\u011fil samimiyette, sayg\u0131 ve fedak\u00e2rl\u0131kta aramal\u0131y\u0131z. Ni\u015fan, nik\u00e2h vb. merasimlerde a\u015f\u0131r\u0131ya gitmemeliyiz. Gelecek nesillerimize do\u011fru bir \u00f6rneklik te\u015fkil etmeliyiz. Unutmay\u0131n\u0131z ki e\u015flerimize kar\u015f\u0131 sorumlulu\u011fumuz oldu\u011fu gibi, neslimize kar\u015f\u0131 da mesuliyetlerimiz var. Onlar\u0131n hay\u0131rl\u0131 olmas\u0131 i\u00e7in Allah\u2019\u0131n emretti\u011fi do\u011frultuda iman ve ibadet \u00fczere bir hayat ya\u015famalar\u0131 i\u00e7in destek olmal\u0131 onlar\u0131 hayra y\u00f6nlendirmeliyiz. Mevlam\u0131z bizleri haddi a\u015fanlardan de\u011fil, helal daireyle iktifa edenlerden, huzurlu bir yuvay\u0131 do\u011fru ve helal ad\u0131mlarla kuranlardan eylesin. Hutbemi \u0130brahim (a.s.)\u2019\u0131n duas\u0131yla tamaml\u0131yorum: \u201cEy Rabbim, beni ve soyumdan gelecek olanlar\u0131 namaz\u0131 devaml\u0131 k\u0131lanlardan eyle. Rabbim, duam\u0131 kabul et.\u201d[5]<\/a>  <\/strong>Amin!<\/p>\n

[1]<\/a> R\u00fbm suresi, 30:21<\/p>\n

[2]<\/a> Beyhak\u00ee, VII\/81<\/p>\n

[3]<\/a> Buh\u00e2r\u00ee, Nik\u00e2h, 3<\/p>\n

[4]<\/a> Eb\u00fb D\u00e2v\u00fbd, Nik\u00e2h, 30-31<\/p>\n

[5]<\/a> \u0130br\u00e2him suresi, 14:40<\/p>\n

Hutbe-T\u00fcrk\u00e7e<\/a><\/p>\n

Hutbe-Arap\u00e7a<\/a><\/p>\n

Hutbe-Hollandaca<\/a><\/p>\n

Hutbe-Norve\u00e7\u00e7e<\/a><\/p>\n

Hutbe-Danca<\/a><\/p>\n

Hutbe-\u0130sve\u00e7\u00e7e<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Ailenin temeli olan evlili\u011fin birey ve toplum a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131ndan pek \u00e7ok faydas\u0131 bulunmaktad\u0131r. Her \u015feyden \u00f6nce evlilik e\u015fler aras\u0131nda huzur ve sevgi kayna\u011f\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":31304,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"ngg_post_thumbnail":0},"categories":[23242,23239],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/48676"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=48676"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/48676\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":48677,"href":"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/48676\/revisions\/48677"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/31304"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=48676"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=48676"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=48676"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}