{"id":5235,"date":"2008-05-09T06:00:00","date_gmt":"2008-05-09T04:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/?p=5235"},"modified":"2015-02-16T11:00:30","modified_gmt":"2015-02-16T10:00:30","slug":"hutbe-aile-yae%c2%b1kan-bela-a%e2%80%a1etleayme","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/tr\/hutbe-aile-yae%c2%b1kan-bela-a%e2%80%a1etleayme\/","title":{"rendered":"Hutbe – Aile Y\u0131kan Bela: \u00c7etle\u015fme"},"content":{"rendered":"

Muhterem Karde\u015flerim,<\/strong><\/p>\n

Kur’an-\u0131 Kerim’de, erkek ve kad\u0131nlar\u0131n g\u00f6zlerini haramdan sak\u0131nmalar\u0131n\u0131 bildiren “Ey Muhammed! M\u00fcmin erkeklere s\u00f6yle, g\u00f6zlerini haramdan sak\u0131ns\u0131nlar, \u0131rzlar\u0131n\u0131 ve namuslar\u0131n\u0131 korusunlar. B\u00f6yle davranmak onlar i\u00e7in daha temiz ve daha hay\u0131rl\u0131d\u0131r. M\u00fcmin kad\u0131nlara da s\u00f6yle, g\u00f6zlerini haramdan sak\u0131ns\u0131nlar, \u0131rzlar\u0131n\u0131 ve namuslar\u0131n\u0131 korusunlar, g\u00f6r\u00fcnmesi zaruri olanlar d\u0131\u015f\u0131nda zinetlerini g\u00f6stermesinler. Ba\u015f \u00f6rt\u00fclerini de <\/strong><\/em>yakalar\u0131n\u0131n \u00fczerine (kadar) \u00f6rts\u00fcnler.”\u009d<\/strong><\/em> (Nur Suresi, [24:30][24:31])<\/strong> ayetlerinin h\u00fckm\u00fc, gayet a\u00e7\u0131kt\u0131r. \u0130slam’da kad\u0131n ve erkek ili\u015fkilerinin \u00f6l\u00e7\u00fcleri belirtilmi\u015ftir. Bu \u00f6l\u00e7\u00fcler \u00e7i\u011fnendi\u011finde felaketler pe\u015f pe\u015fe gelir ve aile ifsad olur, toplum ifsad olur. \u0130nsan\u00ee ve \u0130slam\u00ee de\u011ferler ayaklar alt\u0131nda kal\u0131r.<\/p>\n

Aziz Karde\u015flerim,<\/strong><\/p>\n

Me\u015fru bir evlilik iste\u011fi oldu\u011funda, taraflar  me\u015fru \u00f6l\u00e7\u00fcler dahilinde birbirlerini g\u00f6rebilir ve birbirleri ile konu\u015fabilirler. Bununla ilgili olarak Hz.Muhammed (sav) “Sizden biriniz bir kad\u0131nla evlenmek istedi\u011fi zaman, onun evlenmesini te\u015fvik edecek niteliklerine bakabilirse baks\u0131n.”\u009d<\/strong><\/em> (Eb\u00fb D\u00e2v\u00fbd, Nik\u00e2h, 18; Tirmiz\u00ee, Nik\u00e2h, 5)<\/strong> Yine ash\u00e2b-\u0131 kir\u00e2mdan Mu\u011f\u00eere \u0130bn \u015eu’be (ra) bir kad\u0131nla evlenmek istiyordu. Allah Ras\u00fbl\u00fc(as) ona \u015fu tavsiyede bulundu: “Git ve onu g\u00f6r. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc g\u00f6rmek birbirinize \u0131s\u0131nman\u0131z i\u00e7in daha iyidir.”\u009d <\/em>(M\u00fcslim, Nik\u00e2h, 74, 75; \u0130bn M\u00e2ce, Nik\u00e2h, 9)<\/strong><\/p>\n

Ayr\u0131ca birbirini hi\u00e7 tan\u0131mayan bir erkekle bir kad\u0131n\u0131n ihtiya\u00e7 halinde ve me\u015fru zeminde birbirlerinden bir \u015fey sorma, bilgi alma, fetva isteme, al\u0131\u015f veri\u015f yapma ve benzeri  \u015feyler i\u00e7in y\u00fczy\u00fcze, telefon veya internet \u00fczerinden g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fme yapmas\u0131 m\u00fcmk\u00fcnd\u00fcr. Ancak g\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fczde “\u00c7etle\u015fme”\u009d<\/strong> tabir edilen bir yolla, s\u0131rf g\u00f6n\u00fcl e\u011flendirmek, ho\u015f\u00e7a vakit ge\u00e7irmek, hatta kendine bir e\u015f bulmak amac\u0131yla yap\u0131lan, yaz\u0131l\u0131 veya g\u00f6r\u00fcnt\u00fcl\u00fc internet g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fmeleri \u0130slam toplumuna zarar vermekte, ahlak\u00ee yozla\u015fmaya yol a\u00e7maktad\u0131r. Evli olan bir erkek veya kad\u0131n\u0131n b\u00f6yle bir g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fme yapmas\u0131, k\u0131sa s\u00fcrede ailevi sars\u0131nt\u0131 ge\u00e7irmesine ve neticede bo\u015fanmaya kadar giden felaketlere yol a\u00e7maktad\u0131r. B\u00f6yle bir ili\u015fki yuvalar\u0131 y\u0131kan en b\u00fcy\u00fck fitne olarak toplumumuzu kas\u0131p kavurmaktad\u0131r. \u00d6nce bir merakla ba\u015flanan internet yaz\u0131\u015fmalar\u0131, sonra konu\u015fmaya, daha sonra g\u00f6r\u00fcnt\u00fcl\u00fc g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fmelere d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f\u00fcyor ve neticede y\u0131llarca mesut bir hayat s\u00fcren aile yuvalar\u0131 bir bir y\u0131k\u0131l\u0131yor. \u00c7ocuklar meydanda kal\u0131yor, insanlar\u0131n ruhsal dengeleri bozuluyor, bazen i\u015fin neticesi cinayetlere kadar uzan\u0131yor.<\/p>\n

De\u011ferli Karde\u015flerim,<\/strong><\/p>\n

Bu fitne \u00f6yle b\u00fcy\u00fck bir fitne ki, en muhafazakar diye d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm\u00fcz kesimlerde bile etkisini g\u00f6steriyor. Irz ve namus avc\u0131lar\u0131 masum bir \u00e7ehre ile ortaya \u00e7\u0131k\u0131yor, tatl\u0131 ve g\u00f6n\u00fcl al\u0131c\u0131 s\u00f6zlerle kar\u015f\u0131daki insan\u0131n akl\u0131na giriyor, ac\u0131mas\u0131zca kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131ndaki insan\u0131n duygular\u0131n\u0131 s\u00f6m\u00fcrerek \u00f6n\u00fc al\u0131namaz facialar\u0131n olu\u015fmas\u0131na sebep oluyorlar. Makina arkas\u0131na oturmu\u015f, kim oldu\u011fu belli olmayan b\u00f6ylesi \u0131rz ve namus d\u00fc\u015fman\u0131 bu ahlaks\u0131zlara nas\u0131l inan\u0131l\u0131r ve g\u00fcvenilebilir? Onun i\u00e7in de \u00e7o\u011fu zaman aldanmalar, y\u00fczy\u00fcze geldiklerinde s\u00fck\u00fbt-\u0131 hayale u\u011framalar ve neticede ya\u015fanan aile dramlar\u0131 herg\u00fcn duyar oldu\u011fumuz adi olaylardand\u0131r.<\/p>\n

Zina fiili sadece nikahs\u0131z cinsel ili\u015fkiden ibaret de\u011fildir.Y\u00fcce Allah Kur’an-\u0131 M\u00fcbininde “Zinaya yakla\u015fmay\u0131n. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc o, \u00e7ok \u00e7irkin bir i\u015f ve k\u00f6t\u00fc bir yoldur.”\u009d<\/strong><\/em> (\u0130sra Suresi, [17:32])<\/strong> buyurarak ona yakla\u015f\u0131lmas\u0131n\u0131 bile yasaklam\u0131\u015f ve \u00e7irkin g\u00f6rm\u00fc\u015ft\u00fcr. Dolay\u0131s\u0131yla ona g\u00f6t\u00fcren yollarda haram ve \u00e7irkindir. \u00c7etle\u015fme yoluyla yap\u0131lan bu t\u00fcr hayas\u0131zl\u0131klarda bir ba\u015fka zina \u00e7e\u015fididir. \u0130slam Peygamberi Hz. Muhammed (sav) “<\/strong><\/em>Onun bunun kar\u0131s\u0131n\u0131, k\u0131z\u0131n\u0131 ayartan bizden de\u011fildir.”\u009d<\/strong><\/em> (Ahmed b. Hanbel)<\/strong>; “Ey gen\u00e7ler, namusunuzu koruyun, zina etmeyin! \u0130yi bilin ki, namusunu koruyana cennet vard\u0131r.”\u009d<\/strong><\/em> (Hakim)<\/strong>; “K\u00f6t\u00fcl\u00fckten korunmak i\u00e7in, nikahl\u0131 ya\u015fay\u0131n ve iffetli olun!”\u009d<\/strong><\/em> (\u0130bni Asakir) <\/strong>gibi hadis-i \u015ferifler de zina ve zinaya sebep olan \u015feylerin tehlike ve \u00e7irkinliklerini anlatmas\u0131 a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131ndan \u00f6nemlidir.<\/p>\n

\u00d6yle ise Muhterem Karde\u015flerim,<\/strong><\/p>\n

Etraf\u0131m\u0131zdaki insanlar\u0131n fuhu\u015f ve zina batakl\u0131\u011f\u0131na d\u00fc\u015fmelerine, \u0131rz ve namus katillerinin oyununa gelmelerine meydan vermeyelim. A\u015fk ve fl\u00f6rt gibi kavramlar etraf\u0131nda zina g\u00fcnah\u0131n\u0131n i\u015flenmesini, ho\u015f g\u00f6rmeyelim. \u0130nternet ve televizyon arac\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131 ile gen\u00e7lerin ahlak\u0131n\u0131 bozan yay\u0131nlara g\u00fcc\u00fcm\u00fcz nisbetinde kar\u015f\u0131 koyal\u0131m. En az\u0131ndan evimizde bu fitneye dikkat edelim. Onlar\u0131 iyi, g\u00fczel ve temiz yollara sevkedelim ve oynanan oyunlara kar\u015f\u0131 onlar\u0131 uyaral\u0131m. Ve hepimize d\u00fcnyada nezih bir hayat s\u00fcrmeyi, ahiret hayat\u0131na da sel\u00eem bir kalple gitmeyi nasip etmesi i\u00e7in Rabbimize dua edelim.<\/p>\n

IGMG \u0130r\u015fad Ba\u015fkanl\u0131\u011f\u0131<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Evli olan bir erkek veya kad\u0131n\u0131n b\u00f6yle bir g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fme yapmas\u0131, k\u0131sa s\u00fcrede ailevi sars\u0131nt\u0131 ge\u00e7irmesine ve neticede bo\u015fanmaya kadar giden felaketlere yol a\u00e7maktad\u0131r.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"ngg_post_thumbnail":0},"categories":[23242,2],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5235"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=5235"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5235\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=5235"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=5235"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=5235"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}