{"id":5322,"date":"2008-05-23T06:00:00","date_gmt":"2008-05-23T04:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/?p=5322"},"modified":"2015-02-16T11:00:30","modified_gmt":"2015-02-16T10:00:30","slug":"hutbe-aeslamaeda-ailenin-a-nemi-ve-a%e2%80%a1a%c2%b6za%c2%bclme-sebepleri","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/tr\/hutbe-aeslamaeda-ailenin-a-nemi-ve-a%e2%80%a1a%c2%b6za%c2%bclme-sebepleri\/","title":{"rendered":"Hutbe – \u0130slam’da Ailenin \u00d6nemi ve \u00c7\u00f6z\u00fclme Sebepleri"},"content":{"rendered":"

Muhterem karde\u015flerim,<\/strong><\/p>\n

Toplumun \u00e7ekirde\u011fini aile olu\u015fturur. Bir toplumun gelece\u011fini tahmin etmek “de\u011ferler”\u009d a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131ndan aile yap\u0131s\u0131na bakmakla m\u00fcmk\u00fcnd\u00fcr. De\u011ferler; k\u00fclt\u00fcr ve topluma anlam veren k\u0131staslard\u0131r. Zira de\u011ferler, co\u015fkularla birlikte bulunur; ki\u015filer y\u00fcce de\u011ferler i\u00e7in \u00f6zveride bulunur. Burada s\u00f6z\u00fc edilen de\u011ferler, kayna\u011f\u0131 ilahi olan bir g\u00fcce dayan\u0131r ki, biz buna “manev\u00ee de\u011ferler”\u009d ad\u0131n\u0131 veriyoruz. Bizim toplumumuz M\u00fcsl\u00fcman oldu\u011funa g\u00f6re, bizde en \u00fcst kimlik din olup, de\u011fer \u00f6l\u00e7\u00fcm\u00fcz de \u0130slamiyet’tir. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc Cenab-\u0131 Hak, “Ey iman edenler! Allah’tan, O’na yara\u015f\u0131r \u015fekilde korkun ve ancak M\u00fcsl\u00fcmanlar olarak can verin.”\u009d<\/strong><\/em> (Al-i \u0130mran Suresi, [3:102])<\/strong> buyurarak, baz\u0131 \u015feyler kaybedilebilir ama, m\u00fcsl\u00fcman olmak, yani \u0130slam’\u0131 din olarak se\u00e7mek her\u015feyden daha \u00f6nemlidir, mesaj\u0131n\u0131 vermektedir.<\/p>\n

De\u011ferli karde\u015flerim,<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u0130slam’da aile yap\u0131s\u0131 kutsald\u0131r. Aile yap\u0131m\u0131z bu kutsall\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131, en y\u00fcce de\u011fer kayna\u011f\u0131 olan Kur’an ve sahih s\u00fcnnetten al\u0131r. Nitekim Kur’an-\u0131 Kerim’de “Allah, size kendi cinsinizden e\u015fler, o e\u015flerinizden de o\u011fullar ve torunlar yaratt\u0131. Sizi helal ve g\u00fczel g\u0131dalarla r\u0131z\u0131kland\u0131rd\u0131. Onlar, h\u00e2l\u00e2 bat\u0131la m\u0131 inan\u0131yorlar? ve Allah’\u0131n nimetini ink\u00e2r m\u0131 ediyorlar?”\u009d<\/strong><\/em> (Nahl Suresi, [16:72]) <\/strong>buyuran Rabbimiz, evlilik ve aile konusunun \u00f6nemine dikkatimizi \u00e7ekmi\u015ftir. Peygamber Efendimiz (as) ise hem kendisi evlenmi\u015f, hem de evlili\u011fi \u015fu m\u00fcbarek s\u00f6zleri ile te\u015fvik buyurmu\u015ftur: “Evlenmeye g\u00fcc\u00fc yetip de evlenmeyen benden (benim \u00fcmmetimden) de\u011fildir.”\u009d<\/em> (Beyhak\u00ee ve Taberan\u00ee)<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u0130\u015fte ge\u00e7en y\u00fczy\u0131l\u0131n ba\u015flar\u0131ndan itibaren maddeci anlay\u0131\u015f ve d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnce bi\u00e7imleri, k\u00fclt\u00fcr ve d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnce d\u00fcnyam\u0131zla  birlikte, aile hayat\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 da etkilemi\u015f, bu sebeple de bu son derece \u00f6nemli olan aile yap\u0131m\u0131zda da sars\u0131lmalar ba\u015f g\u00f6stermi\u015ftir. \u00d6z itibariyle her ne kadar son derece faydal\u0131 olsalarda, \u00f6zellikle k\u00fcresel \u00f6l\u00e7ekte kitle haberle\u015fme ara\u00e7lar\u0131n\u0131n artmas\u0131yla birlikte, gelenek, ahlak ve \u00f6z k\u00fclt\u00fcr\u00fcm\u00fczde meydana gelen tahribat had safhaya ula\u015fm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. Bunun en belirgin \u00f6rne\u011fi, aile ge\u00e7imsizliklerinin ve  bo\u015fanma davalar\u0131n\u0131n artm\u0131\u015f olmas\u0131d\u0131r. Bo\u015fanmalar\u0131n ba\u015fl\u0131ca sebebi olarak; cehalet, her\u015feyin mubah say\u0131lmas\u0131, mahremiyet s\u0131n\u0131rlar\u0131na tecav\u00fcz, televizyonda oynat\u0131lan dizilerin etkisi, \u00e7e\u015fitli yollarla m\u00fcstehcenli\u011fin \u00f6zendirilmesi, e\u015flerin  birbirlerine zaman ay\u0131rmamas\u0131 ve birbirlerini aldatmas\u0131, d\u00fcnyevile\u015fme (d\u00fcnyaya a\u015f\u0131r\u0131 ba\u011fl\u0131l\u0131k), reklam end\u00fcstrisi sayesinde t\u00fcketim arzu ve \u00e7\u0131lg\u0131nl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131n k\u00f6r\u00fcklenmesi gibi fakt\u00f6rleri sayabiliriz.<\/p>\n

Aziz karde\u015flerim,<\/strong><\/p>\n

Aile felaketlerinin en \u00f6nemli sebeblerinin ba\u015f\u0131nda biraz \u00f6nce de i\u015faret edildi\u011fi gibi, erke\u011fin evini, ailesini ve e\u015fini ihmal etmesidir. \u00c7ok kazanma h\u0131rs\u0131yla \u00e7ok \u00e7al\u0131\u015fma, kahvehanelerde  ve l\u00fczumsuz yerlerde zaman ve \u00f6m\u00fcr t\u00fcketme gibi sebeblerle evi ve aileyi ihmal felaketle neticelenmektedir. \u0130slam, erke\u011fin han\u0131m\u0131na kar\u015f\u0131 g\u00f6rev ve sorumluluklar\u0131n\u0131, kad\u0131n\u0131n beyine kar\u015f\u0131 g\u00f6rev ve sorumluluklar\u0131n\u0131 bir bir ortaya koymu\u015ftur. \u00c7o\u011funlukla bu g\u00f6rev ve sorumluluklar bilinmedi\u011finde ya da ihlal ve ihmal edildi\u011finde ortaya aile y\u0131k\u0131m ve facialar\u0131 \u00e7\u0131kmaktad\u0131r. Bu sebeple, aile fertlerinin birbirlerine kar\u015f\u0131 ahlak\u00ee vazifelerini ve sorumluluklar\u0131n\u0131 yerine getirmesi b\u00fcy\u00fck \u00f6nem ta\u015f\u0131maktad\u0131r. Ailenin devam\u0131, mutlulu\u011fu ve  gelece\u011fi buna ba\u011fl\u0131d\u0131r. Manev\u00ee de\u011fer yarg\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131n ask\u0131ya al\u0131nd\u0131\u011f\u0131 b\u00fct\u00fcn toplumlarda, ailenin, dolay\u0131s\u0131yla toplumun \u00e7\u00f6k\u00fc\u015f\u00fc ka\u00e7\u0131n\u0131lmazd\u0131r.<\/p>\n

B\u00fct\u00fcn bunlardan dolay\u0131d\u0131r ki, de\u011ferli karde\u015flerim,<\/strong><\/p>\n

Kurtulu\u015f, ancak insan\u0131n vahyin sesine kulak vererek ayd\u0131nlanmas\u0131yla, k\u0131saca, hayat\u0131 anlamland\u0131rmakla ger\u00e7ekle\u015fecektir. Netice olarak, modernitenin ac\u0131mas\u0131z sald\u0131r\u0131lar\u0131 kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda M\u00fcsl\u00fcman aile yap\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 korumak ve kollamak, var olu\u015f k\u00f6klerimize yani inan\u00e7 de\u011ferlerimize yeniden d\u00f6nmekle m\u00fcmk\u00fcn olacakt\u0131r.<\/p>\n

IGMG \u0130r\u015fad Ba\u015fkanl\u0131\u011f\u0131<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Modernitenin ac\u0131mas\u0131z sald\u0131r\u0131lar\u0131 kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda M\u00fcsl\u00fcman aile yap\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 korumak ve kollamak, var olu\u015f k\u00f6klerimize yani inan\u00e7 de\u011ferlerimize yeniden d\u00f6nmekle m\u00fcmk\u00fcn olacakt\u0131r.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"ngg_post_thumbnail":0},"categories":[23242,2],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5322"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=5322"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5322\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=5322"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=5322"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=5322"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}