{"id":53540,"date":"2024-08-08T19:56:20","date_gmt":"2024-08-08T17:56:20","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/?p=53540"},"modified":"2024-08-08T19:56:20","modified_gmt":"2024-08-08T17:56:20","slug":"evlatlarimiza-karsi-sorumluluklarimiz","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/tr\/evlatlarimiza-karsi-sorumluluklarimiz\/","title":{"rendered":"Evlatlar\u0131m\u0131za Kar\u015f\u0131 Sorumluluklar\u0131m\u0131z"},"content":{"rendered":"

Muhterem Karde\u015flerim!<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u00c7ocuklar\u0131n ebeveynlerine kar\u015f\u0131 sorumluluklar\u0131 oldu\u011fu gibi anne babalar\u0131n da \u00e7ocuklar\u0131na kar\u015f\u0131 sorumluluklar\u0131 vard\u0131r. Efendimiz bu mesuliyeti \u201cHepiniz \u00e7obans\u0131n\u0131z; hepiniz g\u00fctt\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fcz s\u00fcr\u00fcden mesuls\u00fcn\u00fcz.\u201d[1]<\/strong><\/a> <\/em>diye izah eder.<\/em> Allah Te\u00e2l\u00e2 ise \u015f\u00f6yle buyurur: \u201cEy iman edenler! Kendinizi ve ailenizi yak\u0131t\u0131 insanlar ve ta\u015flar olan ate\u015ften koruyun…\u201d[2]<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n

E\u015flerimiz ve \u00e7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131z bize Allah\u2019\u0131n emanetleridir. Emanete riayet etmek m\u00fcminin \u00f6zelliklerinden biri iken, h\u0131yanet etmek ise m\u00fcnaf\u0131kl\u0131k alametidir. Allah\u2019\u0131n emanetlerine kar\u015f\u0131 ilk vazifemiz onlara Rablerini tan\u0131tmak, sevdirmek ve tevhit inanc\u0131n\u0131 kavram\u0131\u015f muvahhid birer m\u00fcmin olmalar\u0131n\u0131 \u00f6\u011f\u00fctlemektir. Nitekim Lokm\u00e2n (a.s.) da o\u011fluna ilk olarak \u201cAllah\u2019a asla ortak ko\u015fmamas\u0131n\u0131\u201d[3]<\/a><\/strong> \u00f6\u011f\u00fctlemi\u015ftir.<\/p>\n

Muhterem M\u00fcsl\u00fcmanlar!<\/strong><\/p>\n

Peygamber Efendimiz (s.a.v.) \u015f\u00f6yle buyurmu\u015ftur: \u201cHi\u00e7bir anne baba, \u00e7ocu\u011funa g\u00fczel terbiyeden daha k\u0131ymetli bir ba\u011f\u0131\u015fta bulunmam\u0131\u015ft\u0131r.\u201d[4]<\/strong><\/a><\/em>Anne baban\u0131n \u00e7ocuklar\u0131na b\u0131rakabilece\u011fi en de\u011ferli miras, onlara verece\u011fi en b\u00fcy\u00fck hediye \u0130slam\u2019\u0131n g\u00fczel ahlak\u0131n\u0131 ve edebini ya\u015fayarak \u00f6\u011fretmektir.<\/p>\n

Anne baban\u0131n \u00e7ocuklara kar\u015f\u0131 mesuliyetleri onlar\u0131n do\u011fumundan \u00f6nce ba\u015flar. Bunlardan ilki dindar ve ahlakl\u0131 e\u015f se\u00e7mektir. Peygamber Efendimiz (s.a.v.) <\/em>evlilik hususunda \u201c\u2026Sen dindar olan\u0131 se\u00e7 ki elin bereket g\u00f6rs\u00fcn.\u201d[5]<\/strong><\/a> <\/em>buyurmu\u015ftur. E\u015f se\u00e7iminde dindar ve ahlakl\u0131 olan\u0131 tercih etmek, sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 bir aile yap\u0131s\u0131n\u0131n ve \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n iyi bir \u015fekilde yeti\u015ftirilmesinin ilk ad\u0131m\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n

\u0130kinci mesuliyet ise evlili\u011fe giden yolun her a\u015famas\u0131nda M\u00fcsl\u00fcman\u2019dan beklenen davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131 sergilemektir. Ni\u015fanlanma ve evlenme s\u00fcre\u00e7lerinde \u0130slami h\u00fck\u00fcmlere uygun davranmak, aile hayat\u0131n\u0131n bereketli ve huzurlu olmas\u0131n\u0131 sa\u011flar. Haramdan uzak durarak, \u0130slam\u2019\u0131n emir ve yasaklar\u0131na uygun \u015fekilde bu s\u00fcre\u00e7leri ger\u00e7ekle\u015ftirmek, ailenin manevi temellerini sa\u011flamla\u015ft\u0131r\u0131r.<\/p>\n

Anne ve baba adaylar\u0131n\u0131n helal ve tayyib olan \u00fcr\u00fcnlerle beslenmeleri ve bunu helal kazan\u00e7la yapmalar\u0131 da bir di\u011fer sorumluluktur. \u00c7ocu\u011fun sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 ve helal g\u0131dalarla beslenmesi anne karn\u0131nda ba\u015flar ve ya\u015fam\u0131 boyu devam eder. Bu y\u00fczden, eve getirilen yiyeceklerin helal kazan\u00e7la elde edilmi\u015f olmas\u0131, annenin yedi\u011fi g\u0131dalar\u0131n helal ve sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 olmas\u0131, \u00e7ocu\u011fun da temiz bir f\u0131tratla d\u00fcnyaya gelmesine ve b\u00fcy\u00fcmesine vesile olur.<\/p>\n

K\u0131ymetli M\u00fcminler!<\/strong><\/p>\n

Anne baban\u0131n \u00e7ocuklar\u0131 d\u00fcnyaya geldikten sonra sorumluluklar\u0131 da artar. Bunlardan ilki yeni do\u011fan yavrular\u0131na g\u00fczel bir isim koymakt\u0131r.  \u00c7ocu\u011fa g\u00fczel ve anlaml\u0131 bir isim koymak, ona verilecek ilk manevi hediyedir. Res\u00fblullah (s.a.v.), \u201cSizler k\u0131yamet g\u00fcn\u00fc isimlerinizle ve babalar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n isimleriyle \u00e7a\u011fr\u0131lacaks\u0131n\u0131z. O h\u00e2lde isimlerinizi g\u00fczel yap\u0131n\u0131z.\u201d<\/em>[6]<\/a> buyurmu\u015ftur. \u00c7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131za \u0130slam b\u00fcy\u00fcklerinin isimlerini vermek, onlar\u0131n \u00f6rnek M\u00fcsl\u00fcman \u015fahsiyetleri tan\u0131tmalar\u0131na da vesile olur. \u00c7ocu\u011fun do\u011fumu ebeveyn a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131ndan Allah\u2019a \u015f\u00fckre vesile olmal\u0131, sadaka verilmeli ve ak\u00eeka kurban\u0131 kesmelidir. Ak\u00eeka kurban\u0131 \u00e7ocu\u011fun do\u011fumundan dolay\u0131 Allah\u2019a \u015f\u00fckr\u00fcn bir ifadesidir. Anne baba \u00e7ocuklar aras\u0131nda ayr\u0131m yapmamal\u0131 ve adil davranmal\u0131d\u0131r. Peygamber Efendimiz (s.a.v.), \u201cAllah\u2019tan korkun ve \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131z aras\u0131nda adaletli davran\u0131n!\u201d[7]<\/strong><\/a> <\/em>buyurmu\u015ftur. \u00c7ocuklara k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck ya\u015flarda Kur\u2019\u00e2n-\u0131 Ker\u00eem\u2019i \u00f6\u011fretmek, onlar\u0131 namaz k\u0131lmaya al\u0131\u015ft\u0131rmak ve g\u00fczel ahlak\u0131 benimsetmek M\u00fcsl\u00fcman ebeveynin asli g\u00f6revleridir. Res\u00fblullah (s.a.v.), \u201c\u00c7ocu\u011fa k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck ya\u015fta verilen terbiye, ta\u015fa kaz\u0131nan yaz\u0131 gibidir.\u201d[8]<\/strong><\/a><\/em> buyurmu\u015ftur.  \u00c7ocu\u011fu evlenme \u00e7a\u011f\u0131na geldi\u011finde, ona uygun bir e\u015f bulup evlendirmek de ebeveynin sorumluluklar\u0131 aras\u0131ndad\u0131r. Evlenmenin \u00f6nemi Peygamberimizin \u201cKim evlenirse, dininin yar\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 tamamlam\u0131\u015f olur.\u201d<\/em>[9]<\/a> hadisinden anla\u015f\u0131l\u0131r.<\/p>\n

K\u0131ymetli M\u00fcsl\u00fcmanlar!<\/strong><\/p>\n

Bizlere Allah\u2019\u0131n emaneti olan \u00e7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 \u0130slam inanc\u0131, ahlak\u0131 ve terbiyesi ile yeti\u015ftirmek en b\u00fcy\u00fck g\u00f6revimizdir. Rabbim bizlere bu yolda sab\u0131r ve kararl\u0131l\u0131k versin. Ya Rabbi! Bizlere, \u00e7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131za g\u00fczel ahlak ve terbiyeyi en g\u00fczel \u015fekilde verebilmeyi nasip eyle. E\u015flerimizi ve \u00e7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 bizlere g\u00f6z ayd\u0131nl\u0131\u011f\u0131 k\u0131l. Bizleri ve nesillerimizi cehennem azab\u0131ndan koru. Ailelerimize iman, huzur ve kararl\u0131l\u0131k ihsan eyle. Amin.<\/p>\n

[1]<\/a> Buh\u00e2r\u00ee, Cum\u2019a 11<\/p>\n

[2]<\/a> Tahr\u00eem suresi, 66:6<\/p>\n

[3]<\/a> Lokm\u00e2n suresi, 31:13<\/p>\n

[4]<\/a> Tirmiz\u00ee, Birr, 33<\/p>\n

[5]<\/a> Buh\u00e2r\u00ee, Nik\u00e2h 15<\/p>\n

[6]<\/a> Eb\u00fb D\u00e2v\u00fbd, Edeb 69<\/p>\n

[7]<\/a> Sahih-i Buh\u00e2r\u00ee, Hibe (11\/ 47)<\/p>\n

[8]<\/a> El-Camiu\u2019s-sa\u011fir, 1\/254; Kenzu\u2019l-Ummal, h. No: 2759<\/p>\n

[9]<\/a> Feyz\u00fcl Kadir 6. 103; Acl\u00fbn\u00ee, 2432<\/p>\n

Hutbe-T\u00fcrk\u00e7e<\/a><\/p>\n

Hutbe-Arap\u00e7a<\/a><\/p>\n

Hutbe-Hollandaca<\/a><\/p>\n

Hutbe-\u0130sve\u00e7\u00e7e<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

\u00c7ocuklar\u0131n ebeveynlerine kar\u015f\u0131 sorumluluklar\u0131 oldu\u011fu gibi anne babalar\u0131n da \u00e7ocuklar\u0131na kar\u015f\u0131 sorumluluklar\u0131 vard\u0131r.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":31302,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"ngg_post_thumbnail":0},"categories":[23242,23239],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/53540"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=53540"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/53540\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":53541,"href":"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/53540\/revisions\/53541"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/31302"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=53540"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=53540"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=53540"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}