{"id":57146,"date":"2025-06-12T15:00:21","date_gmt":"2025-06-12T13:00:21","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/?p=57146"},"modified":"2025-06-13T09:06:06","modified_gmt":"2025-06-13T07:06:06","slug":"komsuluk-haklari","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/tr\/komsuluk-haklari\/","title":{"rendered":"Kom\u015fuluk Haklar\u0131"},"content":{"rendered":"

Aziz M\u00fcsl\u00fcmanlar!<\/strong><\/p>\n

Y\u00fcce dinimiz \u0130slam sadece iman ve ibadet hayat\u0131m\u0131za dair de\u011fil, toplumsal hayat\u0131m\u0131zla ilgili de birtak\u0131m kurallar koymu\u015ftur. Nitekim hutbemin ba\u015f\u0131nda okudu\u011fum \u00e2yet-i kerimede Y\u00fcce Rabbimiz \u201cAllah\u2019a ibadet edin ve ona hi\u00e7bir \u015feyi ortak ko\u015fmay\u0131n. Ana-babaya, akrabaya, yetimlere, yoksullara, yak\u0131n kom\u015fuya, uzak kom\u015fuya, yan\u0131n\u0131zdaki arkada\u015fa, yolcuya, elinizin alt\u0131ndakilere iyilik edin. \u015e\u00fcphesiz, Allah kibirlenen ve \u00f6v\u00fcnen kimseleri sevmez.\u201d[1]<\/a> <\/strong>diye buyurarak, kulluktan sonra kendisine iyi davran\u0131lacak kimseleri zikretmektedir. Kom\u015fu tabiri birbirine biti\u015fik veya yak\u0131n yerlerde ya\u015fayanlar i\u00e7in kullan\u0131l\u0131r. Kom\u015fu olman\u0131n do\u011furdu\u011fu birtak\u0131m hak ve g\u00f6revlerin yan\u0131 s\u0131ra, bunlar\u0131n sa\u011flad\u0131\u011f\u0131 bir ili\u015fkiler d\u00fczeni de bulunmaktad\u0131r.  Kom\u015fuluk ili\u015fkileri sosyal dayan\u0131\u015fma a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131ndan \u00f6nemli oldu\u011fu gibi, ailelerin huzur ve g\u00fcven i\u00e7inde ya\u015famalar\u0131 a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131ndan da \u00e7ok \u00f6nemlidir. \u0130yi kom\u015fuluk ili\u015fkileri mutluluk ve sevincin payla\u015f\u0131lmas\u0131nda, s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131 ve kederin g\u00f6\u011f\u00fcslenmesinde ayr\u0131 bir \u00f6neme sahiptir. Kadim k\u00fclt\u00fcr\u00fcm\u00fczden s\u00fcz\u00fclm\u00fc\u015f bir anlay\u0131\u015f olan, \u201cEv alma kom\u015fu al.<\/em>\u201d ifadesi, kom\u015fuluk ili\u015fkilerinin her iki y\u00f6n\u00fc a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131ndan da son derece isabetli bir tespiti dile getirmektedir.<\/p>\n

De\u011ferli M\u00fcminler!<\/strong><\/p>\n

Bizlere her y\u00f6n\u00fcyle \u00f6rnek te\u015fkil eden Resul-i Ekrem (s.a.v.) Efendimiz, kom\u015fularla iyi ili\u015fkilerin s\u00fcrd\u00fcr\u00fclmesine \u00f6nem vermi\u015ftir. Ayn\u0131 \u015fekilde kom\u015fuya eziyet verecek ve onu rahats\u0131z edecek s\u00f6zl\u00fc ya da fiil\u00ee her t\u00fcr davran\u0131\u015ftan ka\u00e7\u0131n\u0131lmas\u0131n\u0131 da tavsiye etmi\u015ftir. Sevgili Peygamberimiz (s.a.v.), kom\u015fusunun eziyetine sabreden insanlar\u0131, Allah\u2019\u0131n sevdi\u011fi \u00fc\u00e7 gruptan biri olarak zikretmi\u015ftir.  Zira insan, mal\u0131, e\u015fi veya \u00e7ocuklar\u0131yla imtihana tabi tutuldu\u011fu gibi, kom\u015fusuyla da imtihan edilebilmektedir. Yak\u0131n kom\u015funun hak ve hukukta \u00f6nceli\u011fi oldu\u011funu vurgulayan Rahmet Peygamberi, \u201cEy Allah\u2019\u0131n Resul\u00fc! \u0130ki kom\u015fum var, ikramda bulunurken hangisinden ba\u015flayay\u0131m?\u201d diye soran Hz. Ai\u015fe\u2019ye, \u201cKap\u0131s\u0131 (sana) en yak\u0131n olandan.\u201d<\/em><\/strong>[2]<\/em><\/strong><\/a> cevab\u0131n\u0131 vererek kom\u015fuluk hukukunu anlatm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r.<\/p>\n

Kom\u015fular\u0131m\u0131z kendi ev halk\u0131m\u0131zdan sonra y\u00fczlerini en \u00e7ok g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm\u00fcz ve bize en yak\u0131n olan insanlard\u0131r. Fiziki anlamda uzakta olan akrabalar\u0131m\u0131zdan bile daha yak\u0131n ve \u00f6nceliklidirler. En yak\u0131n sosyal \u00e7evreyi kom\u015fular olu\u015fturdu\u011fu i\u00e7in gerek Kur\u2019an-\u0131 Kerim\u2019de gerekse had\u00ees-i \u015feriflerde kom\u015fuluk ili\u015fkileri \u00fczerinde hassasiyetle durulmu\u015ftur. Nitekim bir ba\u015fka had\u00ees-i \u015ferifte Efendimiz (s.a.v.) \u201cAllah kat\u0131nda kom\u015fular\u0131n hay\u0131rl\u0131s\u0131, kom\u015fusuna faydal\u0131 oland\u0131r.\u201d[3]<\/a><\/strong> buyurmu\u015ftur. Maalesef g\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fczde \u00f6zellikle de metropollerde kom\u015fuluk ili\u015fkilerine yeterince \u00f6nem ve hassasiyet g\u00f6sterilmemektedir. Ayn\u0131 binada ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z h\u00e2lde kom\u015fumuzun cenazesinden habersiziz. Ayn\u0131 asans\u00f6re bindi\u011fimiz h\u00e2lde dertlerini veya s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131 sormay\u0131 ihmal ediyoruz. Oysa Efendimiz (s.a.v.), \u201cYan\u0131 ba\u015f\u0131ndaki kom\u015fusu a\u00e7ken, tok yatan kimse (k\u00e2mil) iman etmemi\u015ftir.\u201d[4]<\/a><\/strong> buyurarak, kom\u015fular\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131lar\u0131na kay\u0131ts\u0131z kalmam\u0131z\u0131n, iman\u0131m\u0131zla ilgili oldu\u011funu ifade etmi\u015ftir.<\/p>\n

Muhterem Dostlar<\/strong>!<\/p>\n

\u015e\u00fcphesiz Hz. Peygamber\u2019in bu tavsiyesi kom\u015fuluk ili\u015fkilerine olduk\u00e7a ku\u015fat\u0131c\u0131 bir \u00e7er\u00e7eve \u00e7izmekle birlikte, kom\u015funun kom\u015fu \u00fczerindeki b\u00fct\u00fcn haklar\u0131n\u0131 saymay\u0131 de\u011fil, belki \u00f6nemli olanlar\u0131ndan baz\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131 vurgulamay\u0131 ama\u00e7lamaktad\u0131r. Bu \u00e7er\u00e7eve, sadece inanc\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 payla\u015fanlarla s\u0131n\u0131rl\u0131 de\u011fildir. Zira ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z toplumda farkl\u0131 inan\u00e7lara mensup kom\u015fular\u0131m\u0131z da bulunmaktad\u0131r. Dinimiz, insanlara kar\u015f\u0131 merhametli, adil ve g\u00fczel ahlakla davranmay\u0131 emreder. Kom\u015fuluk, din veya kimlik fark\u0131 g\u00f6zetmeksizin bir arada ya\u015faman\u0131n, birlikte hayat kurman\u0131n getirdi\u011fi ahlaki bir sorumluluktur. Bu anlay\u0131\u015fla, farkl\u0131 inan\u00e7 ve k\u00fclt\u00fcrlere sahip kom\u015fular\u0131m\u0131za da g\u00fcler y\u00fczle yakla\u015fmak, ihtiya\u00e7lar\u0131 oldu\u011funda destek olmak, sevin\u00e7lerini ve \u00fcz\u00fcnt\u00fclerini payla\u015fmak hem din\u00ee hem de insani bir g\u00f6revimizdir. Bir selam, i\u00e7ten bir tebess\u00fcm ya da samimi bir ikram kalpleri yumu\u015fat\u0131r, g\u00f6n\u00fclleri yak\u0131nla\u015ft\u0131r\u0131r. Hz. Peygamber (s.a.v.) \u015f\u00f6yle buyurmu\u015ftur: \u201cBir M\u00fcsl\u00fcman \u00f6ld\u00fc\u011f\u00fcnde, en yak\u0131n kom\u015fular\u0131ndan \u00fc\u00e7 hane halk\u0131 kendisinin iyi bir insan oldu\u011funa \u015fahitlik ederlerse, Y\u00fcce Allah (c.c.), ‘Bildikleri kadar\u0131yla \u015fahitlikte bulunan kullar\u0131m\u0131n \u015fahitli\u011fini kabul ettim ve kendi bildiklerimi de ba\u011f\u0131\u015flad\u0131m.’ buyurur.\u201d[5]<\/a><\/strong> Rabbimiz bizleri kom\u015fular\u0131yla iyi ge\u00e7inen, bulundu\u011fu \u00e7evreye g\u00fcven ve huzur yayan m\u00fcminlerden eylesin.<\/p>\n

[1]<\/a> Nis\u00e2 suresi, 4:36<\/p>\n

[2]<\/a> Eb\u00fb D\u00e2v\u00fbd, Edeb, 122-123<\/p>\n

[3]<\/a> Tirmiz\u00ee, Birr, 28<\/p>\n

[4]<\/a> \u0130bn Eb\u00ee \u015eeybe, Musannef, \u0130man ve Ru\u2019y\u00e2, 6<\/p>\n

[5]<\/a> \u0130bn-i Hanbel, II, 409<\/p>\n

Hutbe-T\u00fcrk\u00e7e<\/a><\/p>\n

Hutbe-Almanca<\/a><\/p>\n

Hutbe-\u0130ngilizce<\/a><\/p>\n

Hutbe-Frans\u0131zca<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n

Hutbe-Arap\u00e7a<\/a><\/p>\n

Hutbe-Hollandaca<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Kom\u015fuluk ili\u015fkileri sosyal dayan\u0131\u015fma a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131ndan \u00f6nemli oldu\u011fu gibi, ailelerin huzur ve g\u00fcven i\u00e7inde ya\u015famalar\u0131 a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131ndan da \u00e7ok \u00f6nemlidir. \u0130yi kom\u015fuluk ili\u015fkileri mutluluk ve sevincin payla\u015f\u0131lmas\u0131nda, s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131 ve kederin g\u00f6\u011f\u00fcslenmesinde ayr\u0131 bir \u00f6neme sahiptir.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":31397,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"ngg_post_thumbnail":0},"categories":[23242,23239],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/57146"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=57146"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/57146\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":57148,"href":"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/57146\/revisions\/57148"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/31397"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=57146"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=57146"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=57146"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}