{"id":61257,"date":"2026-04-16T10:01:17","date_gmt":"2026-04-16T08:01:17","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/?p=61257"},"modified":"2026-04-16T10:01:17","modified_gmt":"2026-04-16T08:01:17","slug":"mueminin-nezaket-dili","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/tr\/mueminin-nezaket-dili\/","title":{"rendered":"M\u00fcminin Nezaket Dili"},"content":{"rendered":"

Muhterem M\u00fcminler!<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u0130man ki\u015fiyi m\u00fcmin yapar ve onu s\u00fcsler. M\u00fcminin kalbini, s\u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc, tavr\u0131n\u0131 ve davran\u0131\u015f\u0131n\u0131 g\u00fczelle\u015ftirir. Kalbe yerle\u015fmi\u015f iman m\u00fcminde ahlak olarak g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fcr. Dil ise bu ahlak\u0131 s\u00f6ze ve ifadelere d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015ft\u00fcren organd\u0131r. \u0130nsan, kalbinde ne ta\u015f\u0131yorsa diliyle onu d\u0131\u015fa vurur. Bu sebeple m\u00fcmin, diliyle inciten de\u011fil, diliyle onaran; diliyle korkutan de\u011fil, diliyle g\u00fcven veren kimsedir. S\u00f6z\u00fcyle huzur ta\u015f\u0131yan bir dil, sahibini de muhatab\u0131n\u0131 da huzurlu k\u0131lar.<\/p>\n

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Muhterem Karde\u015flerim!<\/strong><\/p>\n

Y\u00fcce Rabbimiz en zor muhatap kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda bile m\u00fcmine \u00fcslup \u00f6\u011fretmi\u015ftir. Hz. M\u00fbs\u00e2\u2019ya Firavun\u2019a giderken, \u201cOna yumu\u015fak ve g\u00f6n\u00fcl al\u0131c\u0131 s\u00f6zler s\u00f6yleyin. Belki o, b\u00f6ylece akl\u0131n\u0131 ba\u015f\u0131na al\u0131r veya hi\u00e7 de\u011filse biraz korkar.\u201d<\/strong>[1]<\/a> buyurulmas\u0131, nezaketin g\u00fc\u00e7s\u00fczl\u00fck veya zay\u0131fl\u0131k de\u011fil; bilin\u00e7li bir duru\u015f oldu\u011funu g\u00f6stermektedir. Nezaket haktan vazge\u00e7mek de\u011fildir. Nezaket hakk\u0131 do\u011fru bir dille ta\u015f\u0131makt\u0131r. Hakk\u0131 ve hakikati s\u00f6ylemek y\u00fcksek sesle, kaba ve sokak diliyle ba\u011f\u0131rmak de\u011fildir. M\u00fcminden beklenen ve m\u00fcmine yak\u0131\u015fan hak ve hakikati kendisine lay\u0131k, edepli, yumu\u015fak ve tesirli bir \u015fekilde ifade etmektir. Nitekim Kur\u2019an-\u0131 Kerim\u2019de Peygamber Efendimiz (s.a.v.) hakk\u0131nda, \u201cSen onlara s\u0131rf Allah\u2019\u0131n l\u00fctfetti\u011fi merhamet sayesinde yumu\u015fak davrand\u0131n. E\u011fer kaba, kat\u0131 kalpli olsayd\u0131n, hi\u00e7 \u015f\u00fcphesiz etraf\u0131ndan da\u011f\u0131l\u0131r giderlerdi. Onlar\u0131 affet, onlar\u0131n ba\u011f\u0131\u015flanmas\u0131n\u0131 dile, i\u015f hakk\u0131nda onlara dan\u0131\u015f, karar verince de Allah\u2019a g\u00fcven, do\u011frusu Allah kendisine g\u00fcvenenleri sever.\u201d<\/strong>[2]<\/a> buyrulmu\u015ftur. Demek ki kalplere ula\u015fan yol sertlikten de\u011fil, hikmetli ve merhametli s\u00f6z ve davran\u0131\u015ftan ge\u00e7mektedir.<\/p>\n

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Aziz Cemaat!<\/strong><\/p>\n

Kur\u2019an-\u0131 Kerim m\u00fcminin dilini bir hedefe y\u00f6nlendirir: \u201c\u0130nsanlar\u0131 Allah\u2019a \u00e7a\u011f\u0131ran, salih amel i\u015fleyen ve \u2018Ben M\u00fcsl\u00fcmanlardan\u0131m\u2019 diyenden daha g\u00fczel s\u00f6zl\u00fc kim olabilir?\u201d[3]<\/a><\/strong> G\u00fczel s\u00f6z if\u015fa eden de\u011fil \u00f6rten, k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fcmseyen de\u011fil de\u011fer veren, ayr\u0131\u015ft\u0131ran de\u011fil birle\u015ftiren s\u00f6zd\u00fcr.<\/p>\n

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K\u0131ymetli M\u00fcminler!<\/strong><\/p>\n

Peygamber Efendimiz (s.a.v.) dini anlat\u0131rken \u00fcslubu esas alm\u0131\u015f ve \u00fcmmetini bu konuda uyarm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r: \u201cKolayla\u015ft\u0131r\u0131n\u0131z, zorla\u015ft\u0131rmay\u0131n\u0131z; m\u00fcjdeleyiniz, nefret ettirmeyiniz.\u201d[4]<\/strong><\/a><\/em> Yine bir had\u00ees-i \u015ferifte, \u201cM\u00fcmin yerici, lanet\u00e7i, \u00e7irkin s\u00f6zl\u00fc ve kaba davran\u0131\u015fl\u0131 de\u011fildir.\u201d[5]<\/strong><\/a><\/em> buyurarak m\u00fcmin i\u00e7in ahlaki s\u0131n\u0131rlar\u0131 \u00e7izmi\u015ftir. Lokm\u00e2n (a.s.) o\u011fluna \u00f6\u011f\u00fct verirken \u201cK\u00fc\u00e7\u00fcmseyerek insanlardan y\u00fcz \u00e7evirme ve yery\u00fcz\u00fcnde b\u00f6b\u00fcrlenerek y\u00fcr\u00fcme!\u201d[6]<\/a> \u201cY\u00fcr\u00fcy\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnde mutedil ol! Sesini al\u00e7alt! <\/strong>(Ba\u011f\u0131r\u0131p \u00e7a\u011f\u0131rarak konu\u015fma!) Unutma ki seslerin en \u00e7irkini merkep sesidir.\u201d[7]<\/a><\/strong> buyurmu\u015ftur.  Bu \u00f6l\u00e7\u00fcler evimizde, i\u015f yerimizde, camide ve toplumun her alan\u0131nda ge\u00e7erlidir.<\/p>\n

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De\u011ferli Karde\u015flerim!<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u00d6yleyse geliniz, sesimizi de\u011fil s\u00f6z\u00fcm\u00fcz\u00fc y\u00fckseltelim. Ya hakk\u0131 s\u00f6yleyelim ya da susal\u0131m. Hakl\u0131 olsak bile k\u0131r\u0131c\u0131 olmayal\u0131m. Yanl\u0131\u015f\u0131 s\u00f6ylerken ki\u015fiyi de\u011fil davran\u0131\u015f\u0131 hedef alal\u0131m. Bir karde\u015fimizin hatas\u0131n\u0131 yaymak yerine d\u00fczeltmeye, olmuyorsa \u00f6rtmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015fal\u0131m. Konu\u015fmadan \u00f6nce, yazmadan \u00f6nce, payla\u015fmadan \u00f6nce kar\u015f\u0131m\u0131zdakileri k\u0131r\u0131p k\u0131rmayaca\u011f\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnelim.<\/p>\n

Allah\u2019\u0131m! Dilimizi do\u011frulukla, lisan\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 nezaketle, kalbimizi merhametle s\u00fcsle. Amin.<\/strong><\/p>\n

[1]<\/a> T\u00e2h\u00e2 suresi, 20:44<\/p>\n

[2]<\/a> \u00c2l-i \u0130mr\u00e2n suresi, 3:159<\/p>\n

[3]<\/a> Fussilet suresi, 41:33<\/p>\n

[4]<\/a> Buh\u00e2ri, \u0130lim, 11, Edeb 80, Cih\u00e2d 164<\/p>\n

[5]<\/a> Tirmiz\u00ee, Birr, 48<\/p>\n

[6]<\/a> Lokm\u00e2n suresi, 31:18<\/p>\n

[7]<\/a> Lokm\u00e2n suresi, 31:19<\/p>\n

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Hutbe – T\u00fcrk\u00e7e<\/a><\/p>\n

Hutbe – Almanca<\/a><\/p>\n

Hutbe – Ingilizce<\/a><\/p>\n

Hutbe – Frans\u0131zca<\/a><\/p>\n

Hutbe – Danca<\/a><\/p>\n

Hutbe \u2013 Flemenk\u00e7e<\/a><\/p>\n

Hutbe \u2013 Isve\u00e7\u00e7e<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Muhterem M\u00fcminler!<\/p>\n

\u0130man ki\u015fiyi m\u00fcmin yapar ve onu s\u00fcsler. M\u00fcminin kalbini, s\u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc, tavr\u0131n\u0131 ve davran\u0131\u015f\u0131n\u0131 g\u00fczelle\u015ftirir. Kalbe yerle\u015fmi\u015f iman m\u00fcminde ahlak olarak g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fcr. Dil ise bu ahlak\u0131 s\u00f6ze ve ifadelere d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015ft\u00fcren organd\u0131r. \u0130nsan, kalbinde ne ta\u015f\u0131yorsa diliyle onu d\u0131\u015fa vurur. Bu sebeple m\u00fcmin, diliyle inciten de\u011fil, diliyle onaran; diliyle korkutan de\u011fil, diliyle g\u00fcven veren kimsedir. S\u00f6z\u00fcyle huzur ta\u015f\u0131yan bir dil, sahibini de muhatab\u0131n\u0131 da huzurlu k\u0131lar.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":31310,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"ngg_post_thumbnail":0},"categories":[23242,23256,23239],"tags":[23265,25032,25080],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/61257"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=61257"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/61257\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":61299,"href":"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/61257\/revisions\/61299"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/31310"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=61257"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=61257"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=61257"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}