{"id":9008,"date":"2010-03-05T10:00:00","date_gmt":"2010-03-05T09:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/?p=9008"},"modified":"2015-02-16T11:00:09","modified_gmt":"2015-02-16T10:00:09","slug":"hutbe-kadae%c2%b1nlarae%c2%b1nae%c2%b1za-aeyi-muamele-ediniz","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/tr\/hutbe-kadae%c2%b1nlarae%c2%b1nae%c2%b1za-aeyi-muamele-ediniz\/","title":{"rendered":"Hutbe &#8211; Kad\u0131nlar\u0131n\u0131za \u0130yi Muamele Ediniz"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><b><span lang=\"EN-US\">Muhterem M\u00fcsl\u00fcmanlar!<\/span><\/b><\/p>\n<p><span lang=\"EN-US\">\u0130nsanl\u0131k tarihinin var olu\u015fundan beri, insan kavram\u0131n\u0131n ikinci yar\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 elbetteki kad\u0131nlar olu\u015fturmaktad\u0131r. Y\u00fcce mevlam\u0131z insan\u0131n bir erkek ve bir di\u015fiden yarat\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131, ger\u00e7ek huzur ve saadetin de bu birlikteli\u011fin ilahi \u00f6l\u00e7\u00fclerle devam ettirildi\u011finde m\u00fcmk\u00fcn olabilece\u011fini bizlere y\u00fcce kitab\u0131m\u0131zda <b><i>&#8220;\u0130\u00e7inizden, kendileriyle huz\u00fbra kavu\u015faca\u011f\u0131n\u0131z e\u015fler yarat\u0131p, aran\u0131zda sevgi ve merhamet peyd\u00e2 etmesi de O&#039;nun (varl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131n) delillerindendir. Do\u011frusu bunda, iyi d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnen bir kavim i\u00e7in ibretler vard\u0131r.&#8221;\u009d<\/i><\/b> (R\u00fbm Suresi, [30:21])<\/span> buyurarak&nbsp; bildirmi\u015ftir. B\u00f6yle olmas\u0131na ra\u011fmen bug\u00fcn kad\u0131n\u0131n, t\u00fcketim d\u00fcny\u00e2s\u0131nda de\u015fifre edilerek bir rekl\u00e2m arac\u0131 olarak istism\u00e2r edilmesi, ona sadece vitrin malzemesi olarak k\u0131ymet verilmesi, arka pl\u00e2nda ise kad\u0131n\u0131n ancak ekonomik ve nefs\u00e2n\u00ee bir met\u00e2 olarak kullan\u0131l\u0131p ezilmesi ve t\u00fcketilmesi onun haysiyeti bak\u0131m\u0131ndan ne kadar ac\u0131 ve onur k\u0131r\u0131c\u0131 bir durumdur. \u0130nsanl\u0131k tarihinde kad\u0131n, ancak \u0130sl\u00e2m&#039;\u0131n ulv\u00ee ikl\u00eeminde en y\u00fcce mevkiine n\u00e2il olmu\u015f ve ailenin bir ferdi olarak en g\u00fczel muameleye tabi tutulmu\u015ftur.&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; &nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; <\/p>\n<p><b><span lang=\"EN-US\">Aziz Karde\u015flerim!<\/span><\/b><\/p>\n<p><span lang=\"EN-US\">Cenab-\u0131 Mevla&#039;m\u0131z\u0131n &#8220;&#8221;\u00a6ve han\u0131mlar\u0131n\u0131zla g\u00fczel bir \u015fekilde ge\u00e7inin&#8221;\u00a6&#8221;\u009d <\/span>(Nisa Suresi, [4:19]) buyru\u011fu \u00e7ok ac\u0131kt\u0131r. Han\u0131mlar\u0131m\u0131za iyi muamale deyince geliniz sevgili Peygamberimizin&nbsp; han\u0131mlar\u0131na muamelesine bir g\u00f6z atal\u0131m. O, han\u0131mlar\u0131n\u0131n hem hocas\u0131, hem de e\u015fi idi. Evi mektepti. O mektebin hocas\u0131 Efendimiz, talebeleri de han\u0131mlar\u0131 ve \u00e7ocuklar\u0131yd\u0131. O, han\u0131mlar\u0131yla \u015faka yapard\u0131, ko\u015fu yapard\u0131. Onlar\u0131 gece namaz\u0131na kald\u0131r\u0131r, evde han\u0131mlar\u0131na yard\u0131m ederdi. Han\u0131mlar\u0131yla daima isti\u015fare eder, sohbet ederdi. Onlara asla vurmam\u0131\u015f, hakaret etmemi\u015f ve onlara olgunlukla yakla\u015fm\u0131\u015ft\u0131. Han\u0131m\u0131n a\u011fz\u0131na konan lokman\u0131n sevap oldu\u011funu s\u00f6ylerdi.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Kad\u0131nlarla ilgili had\u00ees-i \u015fer\u00eeflerinde, <strong>&#8220;Sizin en hay\u0131rl\u0131n\u0131z, \u00e2ilelerine en g\u00fczel mu\u00e2melede bulunan\u0131n\u0131zd\u0131r!&#8221;\u009d <\/strong>(\u0130bn-i M\u00e2ce, Nik\u00e2h, 50; D\u00e2rim\u00ee, Nik\u00e2h, 55)&nbsp;<strong> &#8220;Bir kimse kar\u0131s\u0131na kin beslemesin. Onun bir huyunu be\u011fenmezse, bir ba\u015fka huyunu be\u011fenir.&#8221;\u009d <\/strong>(M\u00fcslim, Rad\u00e2, 61) buyurmu\u015ftur. Hazret-i \u00c3\u201ai\u015fe v\u00e2lidemizin if\u00e2desiyle, kendisi de hay\u00e2t\u0131 boyunca hi\u00e7bir han\u0131m\u0131na el kald\u0131rmam\u0131\u015f ve hi\u00e7 kimseye eliyle vurmam\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. (\u0130bn-i M\u00e2ce, Nik\u00e2h, 51) Nitekim muhtelif zamanlarda \u015f\u00f6yle buyurmu\u015flard\u0131r: <strong>&#8220;Kad\u0131nlar\u0131 d\u00f6vmeyiniz!&#8230;Kad\u0131nlar\u0131n\u0131 d\u00f6ven kimseler, sizin  hay\u0131rl\u0131n\u0131z de\u011fildir.&#8221;\u009d<\/strong> (Eb\u00fb D\u00e2v\u00fbd, Nik\u00e2h, 42; \u0130bn-i MaceNik\u00e2h,51) &nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;<br \/>\n<strong>Muhterem karde\u015flerim,<\/strong><br \/>\nBu ve benzeri had\u00ees-i \u015fer\u00eeflerden, sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 \u00e2ilelerin, ancak muhabbet temeli \u00fczerinde kurulabilece\u011fini onlara kar\u015f\u0131 muhabbeti zedeleyecek davran\u0131\u015flardan uzak durup onlara nasihatte bulunup sad\u0131k bir aile reisi olmam\u0131z gerekti\u011fini anlayabiliriz. Hutbemizi sevgili peygamberimizin veda hutbesinden kad\u0131nlar\u0131m\u0131zla ilgili b\u00f6l\u00fcm\u00fcyle bitiriyoruz:<strong> &#8220;Ey \u0130nsanlar! Kad\u0131nlar\u0131n haklar\u0131na riayet etmenizi ve bu hususta Allah&#039;tan korkman\u0131z\u0131 tavsiye ederim. Siz kad\u0131nlar\u0131, Allah emaneti olarak ald\u0131n\u0131z; onlar\u0131n namuslar\u0131n\u0131 ve iffetlerini Allah ad\u0131na s\u00f6z vererek helal edindiniz.&#8221;\u009d <\/strong>(Veda Hutbesi)<\/p>\n<p><strong>IGMG \u0130r\u015fad Ba\u015fkanl\u0131\u011f\u0131<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&#8220;\u0130\u00e7inizden, kendileriyle huz\u00fbra kavu\u015faca\u011f\u0131n\u0131z e\u015fler yarat\u0131p, aran\u0131zda sevgi ve merhamet peyd\u00e2 etmesi de O&#8217;nun (varl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131n) delillerindendir. Do\u011frusu bunda, iyi d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnen bir kavim i\u00e7in ibretler vard\u0131r.&#8221;\u009d (R\u00fbm Suresi, [30:21])<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"ngg_post_thumbnail":0},"categories":[23242,2],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9008"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=9008"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9008\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=9008"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=9008"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.igmg.org\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=9008"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}